I am 15 years old. Is it ok to have sexual fantasies?

Question

I am 15 years old and a sophomore in high school. Lately I have discovered masturbating and have been doing it quite frequently. I dont have much privacy because I have 5 sisters so I often go downstairs to my basement and take off all my clothes and masturbate. I often download pictures off the internet of Jessica Biel, Jessica Alba, Jessica Simpson, Paris Hilton, Lindsay Lohan and others and just masturbate to them. Is that normal? Otherwise I often will just sit nude on my recliner and masturbate to girls in my high school bent over with a skirt and no panties on. I love butts. Anyway, is it wrong to do this? I almost got caught the other day by my sister Dawn. I dont want to get ridiculed for this in case I do ever get caught

Answer 1

Sounds like a typical 15 year old to me. But, don't get caught..ewwww

Answer 2

It is totally normal for that to happen. Everyone goes thru it. Some people start earlier then others. There is nothing wrong with masturbation. In the Kama Sutra, it actually says that masturbation can help bring on strong orgasms during intercourse. It is totally normal for a person of 13 to 16 to be big in masturbation, especially before having intercourse. But don't take off all your clothes, leave your pants on or boxers, that way, if you do almost get caught, you aren't running around getting clothes on. If you want, send me a message and I'll send you a site that is way better then looking at pictures of celebraties. And I would take away Paris and Lindesay if I were you, they aren't worth dreaming about.

Answer 3

Yes, it's perfectly normal at your age to fantasize and masturbate while doing it. Far better than acting out those fantasies in real life, if you know what I mean. However, I don't feel that going to the basement will give you much privacy with the five sisters roaming about. Why not lock yourself in the bathroom instead? Your parents might do more than ridicule, especially if you are caught by one of your sisters. Just be careful, dude!

Answer 4

Some people start to have sexual fantasies from even earlier than that. The fact is, that when you're a teenager most people are masturbating but they would never admit to it and getting caught would probably be one of the most embarrassing things that could ever happen.

My advice is that you're doing nothing wrong at all, but keep it to yourself and don't caught whatever you do. Also here's a tip for you, you might find that some other guys talk about masturbation openly but girls (at your age) definitely don't find it attractive.

Answer 5

First of all, there's nothing weird about spanking the old monkey. Every male from the beginning of time has done it, and you are no different! Wow! 5 sisters! - There will be a place for you in Heaven! How do you ever get into the bathroom? Never stop looking at the girls! It's too bad you don't have a big brother to talk to, and IT'S DEFINITELY O.K.!

Answer 6

maximum boys going into guy hood have those se3xual fantacies, even men do, that's general. My son is popping 11 and he's already thinking. in case you get caught you would be embarresed and greater so on the grounds which you have all sisters. that's ok a minimum of your no longer out catching some ailment or being a pervert. ALL men FANTASIZE approximately women. you would be large in basic terms make confident once you do initiate having intercourse which you're conserving your self and the different guy or woman.

Answer 7

That is so normal. LOL, u kinda sound like me. I still do that and Im older. Seriously its just hormones and your discovering your sexual side. Dont be ashamed, ur sister probably does it too and just doesnt say anything about it. It can be fun and exciting trying new things and discovering new things about yourself. Dont let anyone make you feel ashamed. Like I said its perfectly normal.

Question though...why Paris Hilton? She doesnt really do much for me. But Jessica Biel, you have great taste on that one :D

Answer 8

There's no place in the bible that says that masturbating is wrong. What is wrong is the images your using and the thoughts you are having. You are destroying your mind and it will only get worse and worse. God wants you to have as pure thoughts as you can. Being a man is hard, because you are going to see attractive women but you need to learn now where to channel such thoughts. You are making yourself emotionally numb to your future love, wife by doing what you are doing. What you are doing now is entirely selfish and will make you feel nothing emotional to other women later on in life and can cause you to have trouble with intimate relationships, maybe with your wife someday. Try to work on not having to use graphic images to give yourself pleasure.

Answer 9

OMG!
sexual fantacies seem to be the NORMAL occurance of all teenage boys.
masterbation also seems to be Natural, but God calls us to be Chaste, even in our minds and fantacies.
Jessica Biel, Alba, simpson, paris, lohan,??????
it is normal for teenagers to do these things, what is BETTER that a person submitts to the will of God and to forsake these things. But it is better to DATE girls with the Goal which is understood to find a person who is compatible and the best person to get married to. When a young man finds a wife it is the best thing in life to Find. Fantacies are just delusional LIES that lead a person Away from the best things in life.
it is always wrong to masterbate, even if a person simply just gets rid of lusts and physical hormonal reactions.
I walked into my brothers room and caught him screwing the carpet. i had a girl who was a freind who came into my room and physically tried to remove the blankets that covered my wickedness. it doenst make it right. it just makes it more embarrasing!

Answer 10

Deary, it is extremely normal, you are discovering your sexuality, what you like and what you don't like. As long as you don't hurt yourself or others it's completely ok: it's even advisable; later in life when you will have relations with other people, you'll know what you are into.