is it ok to like someone IN ISLAM ???? .. ONLY LIKING N I DIDN'T TELL YET
2007-01-21 06:36:42 · 7 answers · asked by Manar 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
if it's sexually then you shouldn't like someone like that.
if it's normal then it's ok.(like loving parents,children,friends).
**if it's sexual liking or like someone for something dirty he does then it's wrong**
2007-01-21 06:47:28 · answer #1 · answered by Dirty 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In Islam, it is not a sin if you feel a special affinity or inclination towards a certain individual since human beings have no control on such natural inclinations. We are, however, definitely responsible and accountable if we get carried away by such feelings and take specific actions or steps that might be deemed as haram (forbidden).
As far as male and female interaction is concerned, Islam dictates strict rules: It forbids all forms of ‘dating’ and isolating oneself with a member of the opposite sex, as well indiscriminate mingling and mixing.
If, however, one does none of the above, and all that he or she wants is to seriously consider marrying someone, such a thing itself is not considered haram. In fact, Islam encourages us to marry persons for whom we have special feelings and affinity. Thus, Islam recommends that potential marriage partners see one another before proposing marriage. Explaining the reason for such a recommendation, the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: “That would enhance/foster the bonding.”
This permission notwithstanding, we are advised against getting carried away by merely the outward appearances of a person; these may be quite misleading. Marriage is a life-long partnership and a person’s real worth is determined not by his or her physical looks, but more so by the inner person or character. Hence, after having mentioned that people ordinarily look for beauty, wealth and family in a marriage partner, the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) advised us to consider primarily “the religious or character factor” over and above all other considerations."
ucan read more here:
http://www.islam-online.net/fatwa/english/FatwaDisplay.asp?hFatwaID=50116
2007-01-21 16:18:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Im not a muslim.
I went out with a muslim man for over a year. He did'nt push his faith on to me, I didn't push mine on to him.
Yes we had active, funny debates, But he was one of the sweetest people I have ever met. No Violence, no possessiveness, no hassles at all.
Your instinct will tell you, listen to that little voice inside you.
2007-01-28 22:53:16 · answer #3 · answered by sylvia a 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well im assumin u mean likin a guy(duh) ........well its ok but u shudnt get into touchin n all of tht n like sum1 mentioned "sexually" oderwise likin or luvin sum1 but abstainin 4m all da evils in such a relationship is fine n if ur old enugh then u shud marry as soon as possible coz marriage saves oneself 4m adultry.....
2007-01-21 14:57:17 · answer #4 · answered by NS 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If u like someone, then u should ask for marriage and get married because otherwise u could fall into haraam.
2007-01-21 14:53:38 · answer #5 · answered by reigning queen 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Well black gurl, your question is not clear though, could't get liking in wat sense !!! but its okay to like someone, and there is nothing wrong with it !
2007-01-21 14:50:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sure... Why not?
2007-01-29 14:11:31 · answer #7 · answered by MAXIMUS R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋