what should i do?

Question

my boyfriend is bad for me when i get upset. say i'm upset over something little, like i call him to tell him i love him, and then we end up with a bad line and he's like 'i dont wanna keep talking i cant hear you' so i get a little upset. no big thing, but the next time we talk i wanna say i love you, and he's talking about the problems we had with the line. then if i tell him something was up, he's upset with me for being upset. all i need is an 'it's ok honey' or 'dont be silly' but he's like 'you always do this' and puts the focus on me being upset. when i wasn't bad to start with. it gets bigger and bigger. cos i'm wanting the affection, but it doesn't come. most of the time we have an amazing loving relationship. but when i'm upset we never deal with what i was upset about. just focus on the things that i do. what should i do?

sorry, the phone is just one thing (the latest lol)

Answer 1

seems like to me he really doesn't know how to deal with all the affectionate stuff in a relationship. u should sit down and let him know how u feel about this situation. i think it is wrong for him to totally ignore u when it is obvious that u are upset about something if he can't change then u need to find someone who u can go to and will be there 4 u in the time of need.

Answer 2

Hello maria h,

First thing you need to do is throw out that phone that you use and buy another. Then you need to do more of your talking in person. You want affection, that is where you find it. Best of luck to you.

--Rick

Answer 3

you should get a different phone for him or wait for him to call you :) :) :)

Answer 4

brake up with him your much to good for him