2007-01-21 06:03:05 · 18 answers · asked by DESTINY K 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There must be a reason he isnt talking to you, so give him a day or 2 to calm down and u do the same, figure out what you are going to say, dont blame each other, hear each other out and keep the communication clear and to the point. If you care about each other and can look past your mistakes then great, sometimes if trust is lost then it must be earned back...its not easy but nothing worth having comes easy.
2007-01-21 06:08:49 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men often become quiet when they are experiencing problems in a relationship. First accept that he may need a little time by himself to sort things out. He may solve the problem on his own. If however, he does not communicate with you on any level in the future then it may be signs of a more serious issue. It is at this point when you let him know directly how you feel and the consequences of his refusing to communicate with you.
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2007-01-21 06:08:10 · answer #2 · answered by Richguy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him out. yeah some guys are so "secretive" but for me i keep him talking because i told him "i'm open for your suggestions", "i accept any comments", what's your opinion about his one? i wanna hear you speak", "any ideas on how we can deal with this?" or any statement that would encourage him to speak...
>give him an open question that will help him decide and talk to you. sometimes we have to stop talking so that they will have time to talk.
> take him to a private place that only the two of you can talk becasue somtimes thy're shy to see people especially if your arguing with him
> know how to read his innermost feelings like for example he's mad... you will know it in his facial expressions...
> give him a "break" i don't mean you have to break up with him... i mean "break"- like for example: avoid arguing with him instead rub is back so that he will feel relaxed and tell him if he can talk to you after?
2007-01-21 06:19:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
With out talking there is no relationship
2007-01-21 06:07:16 · answer #4 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well destiny if he is not talking to you then I guess this is the perfect opportunity, for him to listen. Say what you need to be said and wait for him to answer. Silence is sometimes golden. Good Luck.
2007-01-21 06:08:21 · answer #5 · answered by george 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
End it. If he doesn't want to talk to you, well theres a major problem there. The best for you is to end it and find someone who will treat you better.
2007-01-21 06:08:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it usually means that hes delaying the inevitable, he is probably not interested in you anymore, and is looking for a way out of the relationship.
2007-01-21 06:11:04 · answer #7 · answered by bensonjr2 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he won't talk to you at all then I would guess the relationship is over.
2007-01-21 06:07:36 · answer #8 · answered by Firienscatha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well.. one of you has to break the ice.
then apologize for whatever you're arguing about
assume responsibility over what happened.
say your a part of the incident.
and then kiss and make up <3
2007-01-21 06:07:08 · answer #9 · answered by HUSTLiN' Babii 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
text messge him tell him how u feel. tell him to stand u for his grounds and stop acting like a baby
2007-01-21 06:08:20 · answer #10 · answered by kayleewimmer 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋