I'm chinese and my parents think the harsher they treat me the better I will become.I go to chinese school every friday night and I have a ton of homework.Plus I have projects and other homework from school. My parents expect me to finish all my homework and get straight A's and go to collage early. When ever I accidentlly forget to do something my parents yell at me and threaten to send me outside.Also when I was like 4 or 5 my parents would hit me and I have a brother that age. My parents never do anything to my brother when he does something bad.They say it's because he's small. When ever they do those things to me it makes me mad and really sad like I'll never be a good enough person.
2007-01-21 06:02:44 · 8 answers · asked by monkey_girl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
my dear tell them what you really feel.
parents can never be mean
get some time of your daily routine an sit beside them.talk on any topic like fun at school,fulishness of some students at school.an desude this share your thoughts.the more u communicate with your parents the more you will come to know their feelings and thoughts and so they will yours.this is hoe your parents will come to know about the level of your mentulaity.this is how they will know how good you are in making your decissions.also share with them about your projects and home work and this is how they will come across to know how much of burden you have.
you also mentioned that they did not treat you good when you were a child.but avoid your small brother.this is a natural thing. parents will never want their childrensto do some thing wrong. when you were small there was no one else than your parents to look after you. so only it was them who would guide you what to do and not to do.some times with love and some times harshly.but your brother have you other than the parents to guide him and you parents know it very well thatother tham them you r there to guide him.
parents can never be mean.
just experience this give a smile to your parents and if they reply the same feel the happiness.
2007-01-21 06:37:17 · answer #1 · answered by marwa 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
With your heritage it is more common for parents to act out this way. I do think, they are borderline, abusive. I suggest you talk to one of your teachers you feel comfortable with and see if sh/he might can intervene.
Keep up the grades if at all possible but don't let yourself be pushed too hard and not get enough rest or in time this problem could accelerate and potentially end in a disaster.
You are more than good enough, don't let that enter you're mind. Maybe you're parents just need some one else to open they're eyes, due to not knowing any better. Hang in there and find some one to stand up with you.
2007-01-28 18:11:25 · answer #2 · answered by SwissAK 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to explain to your parents that your human and you can't be expected to get straight A's all the time.
They need to accept that while they probably have strict rules not everyone agrees with them.
Tell them if they want you to do well in your homework they will need to give you time to produce that amount of work well.
I think youre parents are being cruel and if this doesn't stop I would advise you to see a family councellor or speak to a friendly adult wh ohas authority like a teacher a nurse docter or someone like that because they will help you if you have any problems please contact me at rosiecon@hotmail.co.uk
2007-01-21 15:06:49 · answer #3 · answered by rozzywozzy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My parents were the exact same way. Like 3 years ago, they pushed me really far and I snapped. I started yelling at them at the top of my lungs. I'm not saying its the right thing to do, but some parents are just to ignorant to realize that they sometimes expect to much from children, so you have to show them how you feel.
2007-01-21 14:22:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just concentrate on your grades. Do n ot think of boys etc.. Your parents have good plans to get you headed in the right direction..
I guess do what they want you are under their roof or you may never see them again....
2007-01-28 15:17:09 · answer #5 · answered by Pooh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to your teachers and friends and friends parents... get help if things get outta hand and theyy are hitting you call the police you said they threaten to put you outside? they cant do that it is against the law call the cops if they do that. talk to them and tellthem how youfeel
2007-01-25 17:35:18 · answer #6 · answered by teapea102 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thay sown bichy, and there trning u n 2 a nerd. I would run away!
2007-01-28 18:25:40 · answer #7 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i think you should tell them how you're feeling!
2007-01-21 14:13:01 · answer #8 · answered by ROBERT N 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋