Me and this girl have known eachother for like 3 years now and her ex boyfriend really hurt her feelings, how can i help her get over him so she can go out with me?
2007-01-21 06:01:45 · 7 answers · asked by TokyoTuner789 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2007-01-21 06:08:53 · answer #1 · answered by ( Kelly ) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's a tough one. if after 3 years of knowing you she doesn't have a clue that you dig her in that manner she may be more dense than we men are apt to be. And it's hard to move in without making someone feel like a rebound. I would think of new and clever ways to show her exactly how well you know who she is without coming right out and saying it. Press all the buttons that you know make her feel special. Not only will you be giving her what she wasn't getting from her boyfriend she will more than likely see you in a new light. chances are if you come right out and say it she will perceive that in the opposite way you intend it.
So I would suggest you take on stealth mode and be confident in what you know about her. Good luck bro.
2007-01-21 06:08:39 · answer #2 · answered by donbenecio 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cant MAKE somebody get over their ex. I'm really hurt by my ex still, and this guy wants to ask me out, but I'm too scared, and it seems to me that she is too. So show her you are really the person who cares about her and you would never hurt her.
2007-01-21 06:06:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make her happy give her a card and some roses then take her to the movies or out to eat and then ask her if she will be your girlfriend!!! (-_o) P.S Good luke with her!
2007-01-21 06:10:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
show her you are there for her and let her come to you tell her you are there for her comfort her and ask her if she wants to talk let her open up to you if she isn't already then when she is back on her feet and ready to date again ask her if she would go out with you
2007-01-21 06:10:03 · answer #5 · answered by shawnee f 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
want to be your man by Josh Turner
sing to her
2007-01-21 06:06:23 · answer #6 · answered by travis c 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you stay with her ans support her and she will see what a geat guy you are... do things for her
2007-01-21 06:11:09 · answer #7 · answered by ~April~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋