When it comes to pleasing a woman in the bedroom, what do they really want guys to do? (especially when going down south) I want to keep her wanting more, and begging me not to stop.
2007-01-21 05:59:09 · 22 answers · asked by Slim 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Send her to me. She will tell you all about it.
2007-01-21 06:02:23 · answer #1 · answered by TOO HOT 4 · 0⤊ 6⤋
Start off all over, then hit the cli t and don't move away from it. You your middle finger inside and "up". You'll feel a smooth spot there. Push on it and move finger in a circular motion there, along with keeping sucking on the cli t. Works every time! You'll know from the response you get if what you're doing is working.
P.S. about 1 in 10 women are ejaculators, so don't be surprised when this G-spot stimulation produces a "wet" orgasm...no, she is not peeing on you. (you might have to tell HER this too!)
2007-01-21 14:05:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ask her.My husband ask me all the time, and if he don't I gently take his head and just politely move it to were I want, but then again that's just how I am.Why waste a good thing while he's trying to figure it out when I can just show him.Good luck.This is not a cause for panic or alarm alot of people just aren't cormfortable discussing these kind of things, but maybe you need to initiate it.If she know your open to discussion it might make her feel better and open the lines of comunication.Maybe she wants to say something as bad as you do but no one says it.
2007-01-21 14:04:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi Slim,
There's tons of resources on techniques. Get Violet Blue's book on cunilingus. However, you still need to be able to communicate with your girlfriend and her wants and desires. She may want you to be a little more gentle down there, or harder, or she might be so sensitive, that she can't stand you going downtown.
Sex is like everything else in a relationship. It all comes down to good communications. Keep talking with her, and you can't do wrong. Best of luck to you.
--Rick
2007-01-21 14:16:23 · answer #4 · answered by rickrudge 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A good woman wants a man to be the bread winner or will work herself and be that or to help out. She wants a man to buy her jjewlery for her(she should not have jewlery on that was bought by another man), You dress your woman up to represent you, She wants to be treated nice asked for opinions of what to do, She wants him to love her, she wants him to be faithful, and fully concentrate on the unit you have together... Other things come second if the other things are taken care of first..
2007-01-21 14:05:13 · answer #5 · answered by Pooh 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I guarantee you there is no one best answer for this. Me in particular - I want gentle, circular, quick (but not so quick that t's rough) rotations with the tongue on my clitoris...If you choose to lick up and down that's fine but concentrate on the clit. No need for fingering if your good.
2007-01-21 14:04:37 · answer #6 · answered by Dr. TT '07 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
A man who wil treat her everyday as if its the first time he sees her, a man who never gets tired of putting her needs before his, a man who must also be a mind reader - who should know how she feels and thinks without her ever telling him ! A man who is willing to carry the burden of all the injustice life did to her and never complain. A man who must also be affectionate, tender and good in bed. A man who is ready to renounce all life just for the sake of her. A man who must be willing to forgoe all logic and just give her what she needs, however illogical, without argument.
A man who is prepared to lie, but must be so good at it otherwise she will accuse him of being 'disgenuous'. Finally: Women want a man who is willing to be a doormat.
2007-01-21 14:04:16 · answer #7 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
.when going south let her lead you do not expect her to beg you for more. a women wants to be pleased not dominated to a slave of your passion. be gently with her and respect her, ask her what you can do to excite her. take your time and go for a lot of four play to arouse her to your level of excitement.
2007-01-21 14:19:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you want to know what she likes and wants, then ask her. Different women have different preferences. What I like and what puts me in orbit, may do nothing at all for her.
Concentrate on who you are with...she's the only one that can tell you what she really wants.
2007-01-21 14:04:16 · answer #9 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
To make us feel as if we are the most beautiful woman in the world or at least your world...touch..not with just your hands but with all of your appendages [in respect of the"Lord's Day"]...and enjoy yourself too..after all it does take two..
Just curious, but why would this answer get a thumbs down..
2007-01-21 14:05:29 · answer #10 · answered by Sallie 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
When you are down south, keep up with the tongue and fengers in both holes down there will have her screaming , every time
2007-01-21 14:03:20 · answer #11 · answered by picture 1 · 1⤊ 2⤋