i really like a guy in my homeroom and almost every day i flirt with him and he flirts back...he is known as a big flirt but i dont know if he likes me or not...the other thing is that he had a party on monday, when we didn't have school, and i wasnt invited. there were like 6 girls, and a bunch of guys. i dont know if this means that he doesnt like me or that he didnt invite me because im not friends with the girls he invited. lastly, i called one day to ask him about his what time his game was...he wasnt there so i guess his sister told him and practically the rest of the family so now his sister, cousin, and everyone in his family knows...he has a HUGE family and they all live in my town...anyway...so his sister and my sister are aquaintences and his sister said, "sooo your sister called my brother so i asked him if he liked her and he said 'yeah, but im playing the field right now'" so i really have NO IDEA if he likes me or not! im so confused! thanks!
2007-01-21 05:43:22 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's always best to date the guys that are crazy about you. If they do not ask you out they are either too shy or not that interested. Sorry that is probably not what you wanted to hear. Maybe you can pursue some other guys. Good luck.
2007-01-21 05:49:29 · answer #1 · answered by BR 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy seems like a player to me, no offence. But, if he didn't invite you to the party, then he must not REALLY like you. But, then again people could just be saying hes a big flirt but they don't actually KNOW him. He could be the sweetest guy but he might just worry about being popular. I dont know. Guys flirt with everyone. If he likes you, you should be able to tell. Write him and a note. But just be careful, because if hes an actual player, everything he says could be a lie. Sooo, I would ask his sister if he really is or not. Its hard to trust guys these days. All they want is to get in your pants :\ But goodluck! :) Tell me how it goes. xfaithelizabeth@yahoo.com
2007-01-21 05:50:58 · answer #2 · answered by Faith 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I used to be in the EXACT same situation. I know it is a weird time. Do what I did. When you are hangin' out with him, pull him off to the side and say "Look, I have liked you for a long time and this question has been bothering me. I need to ask you this. Do you like me also." Be ready for acceptance OR rejection.
2007-01-21 06:01:00 · answer #3 · answered by mcneill_samantha 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be hooked up into one guy being so young. Apparently there is nothing to be confused about. He's interseted in a few girls, one of them might be you-or not. Don't get your hopes up in this one. Sure, you can flirt with him and see what goes from there. If you happen to get involved with him though, make sure you tell him that your a solo player so you don't get hurt.
2007-01-21 05:50:03 · answer #4 · answered by flighty001100 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm.....o think we've all been there before....what he told his sis is this " yes he likes you and find you attractive , but he is also keeping his eyes open for better "oppertunities" which means he's looking around still and not sure about who he wants to be with!! better to just be careful and not get hurt !!! dont fall for him yet!!! hes still interested in other girls you age! the guy language is very.....very.....very hard to fiugre out some times and they say the same about us gals.....it doesn't get any better when you get older either lol they are still hard to interpret!!! in the future ask you guy friends there guys and can understand the way other guys think and feel!!! good luck
2007-01-21 05:55:36 · answer #5 · answered by southernspring2010 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well he said yeah...so he probably does but he doesn't want to be tied down. that isn't always bad...i mean it's normal to be interested in more than one person. ask him out...that should clear things up! and then maybe he'll realize that you're then one he truly likes and then forget about the other girls!
2007-01-21 05:51:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he kinda likes you, but he likes himself so much more, so if your looking a serious relationship....don't go with him, you can't change a guy who is a big flirt
2007-01-21 05:49:51 · answer #7 · answered by :) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he mite but just to be on the safe said dont jump into anythin too fast
2007-01-21 05:49:28 · answer #8 · answered by Kappy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For me, he doesn't like you.
And he is not worth it.
2007-01-21 05:49:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋