i got a new boyfriend and i really like him if any of ya have any good ideas on how to make him wanna stay with me for awhile would be appreciated. besides sex...
2007-01-21 05:35:25 · 11 answers · asked by confussed 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's entirely up to you. If you treat him with respect, encourage him to do well, share your time and activities with him, get to know his friends, go out on activities that are mutually acceptable and enjoyed, and don't stifle him, you should be able to make a success of the relationship. Of course, a relationship is a two-way street so there's got to be some give on his part, too. So expect the same treatment from him. Otherwise the relationship will not really survive.
2007-01-21 05:42:51 · answer #1 · answered by JADE 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if he is your boyfriend, he is with for a reason (hopefully not to just try to get in your pants). Just be yourself. Don't be clingy, most guys dont like that. If he is in the relationship for a good reason, you should have to MAKE him want to stay with you. Go out and see a movie, hike, go shopping, do an activity, chill at the house and talk. If you don't want sex, let him know that your not going to go that far. I had that conversation with my current boyfriend and he is fine with it.
2007-01-21 13:43:18 · answer #2 · answered by Miss_MountinM 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find out what his interests are. Go with him to the things you have in common, and let him have his freedom through some of the things that you don't (notice, I said "some"). Part of building any type of relationship is learning about new things from new people. Good luck!
2007-01-21 13:40:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't need to do anything, other than being yourself for a guy to want to stay with you. If it takes you doing something special all of the time to make him stay, then he doesn't deserve you. Just be yourself and you can't go wrong!
2007-01-21 13:39:40 · answer #4 · answered by engineer46526 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just dont be up his *** all the time like a lot of girls re with there boyfriends. and dont seem jelous guys hate that!!! from experiance just go with the flow and dont act serious about him just act like you can get any guy let him appriciate what he has make him want you!!!!!!! dont chse him make him chase you! guys love a girl that is hard to get!!
2007-01-21 13:41:30 · answer #5 · answered by ♥proud mommy of 2 girls♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be a good girlfriend..don't pay all of your attention to him at first so he doesn't think you're needy and once you guys get completely used to eachother you can give him more attention
2007-01-21 13:42:10 · answer #6 · answered by Brianna T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this relationship is meant to be, he will stay with you whatever you do. You have to be honest and be yourself. If you try to be something you are not he will notice and will not stay with you.
2007-01-21 13:40:02 · answer #7 · answered by Sue 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be yourself if its meant to work out it will dont live a lie if he is your boy friend thats the reason he is with you because you were real to him
2007-01-21 13:50:51 · answer #8 · answered by edrobel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get him a present like an ipod or an mp3 player
2007-01-21 13:39:13 · answer #9 · answered by michelle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should just be yourself and be honest and open and let him know how you feel about him often, try and spend as much time as you can with him and get to know him and let him get to know you
2007-01-21 13:39:37 · answer #10 · answered by tiny g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋