i like this guy, and i've heard he likes me, but he acts hard to get, but i do too?? i don't know how exactly to approach him, and i've never had to really approach a guy b4, cause they usually ask first...so...what do i do??
2007-01-21 05:30:07 · 11 answers · asked by Jessicca 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Guys don't act hard to get. You are probably taking all the fun of the chase away and he isn't as interested. Flirt and be fun. He'll come around.
2007-01-21 05:36:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Playing hard to get is a touchy subject. The "chase" is always the best part, but theres a limit to how far and long you want to take it. Definitely you don't want the both of you playing hard to get, then... who's doing the chasing? You sound like you've got some friends telling you some inside info. If that's the case just have them give him a little encouraging nudge if he's the shy type. I'd agree with a previous statement another post said about guys not playing hard to get. Most guys do not! The only ones that intentionally do are the "players" and you don't want to go there, trust me. The others that appear to, are really actually very shy. They'll the right encouragement from you or friends, and playing hard to get will only make him doubt himself. Let him make the first moves but don't sink his ship by not returning calls or flirting with other guys in front of him. Drop some hints, and wait, if he doesn't take action then, well... you can always do it yourself. Better if the guy makes the first move always though, you want a man, not a boy ;)
2007-01-21 05:56:55 · answer #2 · answered by Peter W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him know that you're interested, but leave it at that. Let him make the first move. Some guys actually play that game for control. But if he is sincere with his actions, maybe he is shy. there's nothing wrong with approaching him first. Just make sure you find out why he acts like that.
2007-01-21 05:38:05 · answer #3 · answered by engineer46526 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Playing hard to get because the chase is worth it in the end. Desperate guys are just annoying and a BIG turn off.
2016-03-29 07:40:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's EASY! Play "hard to get" BACK to him next time he approaches you!
Also, know what would REALLY get his attention? You have other guy Friends? Let him see you talking to another guy! You will get guaranteed results IF he likes you the way you have heard!!!!!!!!!
THEN, the "hard-to-get" Ploy will be put to rest!
2007-01-21 05:38:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
never ask the guy, you make him ask you. Kinda flirt, but not to much. And when you laugh, kinda if put your hand on your heart, do you noe what i mean. If it looks to robotic when you do it then don't. He is just acting hard to get to see if you like him, so you kinda have to show him, but if you seem at all desperate he'll never ask you out.
2007-01-21 05:44:12 · answer #6 · answered by :) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well don't act too desperate if hes playing hard to get..thats what he wants you to do, but if you do the same, theres a good chance he'll just give up and come after you haha.
2007-01-21 05:33:20 · answer #7 · answered by Brianna T 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to be the one to tell you, but unless they're really shy, guys don't play hard to get. If they like a girl and she's interested, they're not gonna waste time playing around.
2007-01-21 05:50:24 · answer #8 · answered by Sandy F 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let them do all tha work u act hard 2 get 4 a lil while
2007-01-21 05:34:01 · answer #9 · answered by tbabyt403 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop playin hard 2 get. if u keep it up, he gon end up not likin u cuz he might think u dont like him. dont fight it and just admit it.
2007-01-21 05:40:13 · answer #10 · answered by herimos 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋