ok i like one of my friends but i dont know how to as him out....... how do i do it? im gonna ask and/or tell him tomorrow so answer PLZ!!
thanks.
2007-01-21 05:24:47 · 23 answers · asked by lauranakf 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
go up to him, and say: wanna go out??
2007-01-21 05:27:32 · answer #1 · answered by GgHj 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask him. Sounds too simple to work, doesn’t it? Well, guys know that it takes a lot of courage to ask someone out, and if the girl does the asking, then you’ve saved him a lot of trouble. You probably already know how to ask a guy out on a date better than he knows how to ask you out. Use your flirting muscles to set the stage for the question.
Instructions
STEP 1: Start flirting. You know how to do it, so use your best tricks. STEP 2: Give good eye contact. Too little and you look nervous in a bad way; too much and you could make them uncomfortable. STEP 3: Smile. Again, you’re shooting for a nice middle ground. Not too toothy, but not too spare. STEP 4: Laugh with him. Guys love to think they are witty little beasts. STEP 5: Make brief physical contact. A light touch on the arm will do just fine. STEP 6: Pop the question. This is your chance to give the guy a good idea of what to expect on the date. A really casual delivery suggests your basic night out with the guys kind of thing. A more enticing delivery sends a clear signal as well. STEP 7: Decide together what you will do. Since this is your first date, a good compromise would be best. Overall Tips & Warnings
If you don’t want to ask for a date initially, then ask for his email or cell number. You can arrange to meet later.
A little nervousness can be endearing, because the guy picks up on this as an indication of how much you like him. Too much nervousness and the guy might think you have some kind of disorder that might be contagious.
Your success rate will increase dramatically if your date fits into your target guy’s idea of fun. Sure, some guys will pounce on the chance to spend an afternoon looking at crochet hooks, but most won’t. Don’t handicap yourself.
Skip the whole mess. Manipulate him into asking you.
2007-01-21 13:29:30 · answer #2 · answered by Joe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, relax, you have compleated step 1: become friends..
2: ask him to go with a group of friends to the movies and flirt then
3:go somewhere privite, like a park, movies, library (public, not school), tell him you like him and would like to get to know him better
4: make plans for the weekend
5: tell your parents/mom, both or just your mom can be helpful...like the ride you'll need for 'dates', but they may not just take you and him, you may have to double date with a friend for awhile(like i do)
6: time will blossom into a relationship, or it won't, just don't say 'i love you' on the 1st date, and he should kiss you @ the end
7a: IT IS NOT THE END OF THE WORLD IF HE SAYS NO!!
calm down, relax, and take a day off
7b: if i he says YES, congrats, talk with your friends, get an outfit (casual, not too overpowering), do your hair and nails, or have a spa day the day/night before with your friends
8: FLIRT!! have fun on your date...
GOOD LUCK, keep me updated...
2007-01-21 13:49:08 · answer #3 · answered by westgxcfreak 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The guy i am currently going out with used to be one of my very good friends. It was wierd at first, because i didn't want to tell him i liked him, because i was afraid that if i said that i liked him, and he didn't like me back, that everything would get messed up, but it turned out that he did like me, and it is even better now, because we already knew so much about eachother. Just make sure that u are alone together, or at least with noone within earshot of you, and just say, I really like, and i was just wondering if you would like to go to a movie or hang out sometime. That is very casual, and gives him some room if he is as unsure as you are, to react. Try not to be too forward or aggressive, because sometimes, guys can get a little defensive and scared, even if they don't want to admit it. Good Luck. <3
2007-01-21 13:31:38 · answer #4 · answered by sadie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be calm and natural, let him know that you would like to go to "X" event or you have tickets to the movies (or whatever) and ask him would he like to go with you.
It is less pressured than saying "would you like to go out on a date". If he is truly interested in going with you, he will say yes, and then doing the evening you can see how well the two of you interact and learn more about how he may feel about you.
2007-01-21 13:30:04 · answer #5 · answered by LewAR26502 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok I am only 12 but here you go.
1.Ask if he is single (the last thing you want is a smack in the face!)
2.Ask who his choices would be( or tell a friend to ask him even better)
3.Tell him to rate you
4.Then pop the question
Good luck x
2007-01-21 13:29:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be up front about it, but try not to come across as being totally hung up on him. Suggest going out once and seeing where it leads. "You know we've been friends for a while now, we should go out sometime just us...
just an idea
mainly just plan a head a little or get a close frined to help.
2007-01-21 13:29:06 · answer #7 · answered by the_gud_one 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh wow, well there are plenty of ways to do this you could just start a casual conversation and somewhere in it ask him if he wants to go see a movie this weekend (or whatever date you have planned) atleast thats how id do it, one of my friends just went up to the guy she liked and just flat out told him so theres two ways, i hope i helped at all
good luck ;)
let me know how it goes ::P
2007-01-21 13:28:48 · answer #8 · answered by Stephy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask him to meet someplace to talk for 45 minutes. I don't know your age group, so I don't know what kind of place is appropriate. Too cold now for an ice cream parlor if you're young. You could meetup at Starbucks for a hot chocolate.
The key is going to be getting him to agree to meet you without bringing his buddies, and you need to not rely on your girlfriends. You two need to talk to make a connection.
If he says no, get somebody else.
2007-01-21 13:29:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you were planning to go to a movie this week and ask him if he'd like to go with you. Discuss the pictures showing, pick a time, and the time he should come to get you. You may have asked him out, but let him drive "Cinderella's chariot".
2007-01-21 13:29:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
step 1 look your best and smile
step 2 go straight up to him when he is alone
step 3 say do you want to have a coffee with me?
2007-01-21 13:28:52 · answer #11 · answered by q6656303 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋