he just doesn't seem like the winking type either! but whenever i go into the classroom, he just smiles and winks. what makes it worse is that he's really attractive, maybe 26 or 27 years old, and he used to play pro soccer before he hurt his ankle. i always smile back, because i guess it's just the polite thing to do. is that bad? would that be considered flirting? idk what to do. i'm a freshman in highschool, and i guess i'd be considered the "hot quiet girl" stereotype. to be completely honest.
2007-01-21 05:21:26 · 6 answers · asked by jooooooolie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Face it, you like the attention. It's not healthy in any way, either. You should try to refocus your energies on education and into becoming an adult instead of taking this shortcut. You have the rest of your life to be a sexual being, but you're still a growing kid. Give this teacher a blank stare the next time he winks...he'll see that you have power over yourself, and he'll be intimidated by it. Older men like younger women because they can't face a grown-up, self-assured female on equal terms.
2007-01-21 05:33:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just act like you don't notice and he will stop. If he does want more it may be just for sex. Because you are young hot and quiet. he may figure you won't tell anyone because you are so quiet. I know an older man seems like fun but in the end you should wonder why he is not winking at somebody his own age. maybe he wants somebody younger who thinks he is really cool rather than a girl your age who won't be easily impressed. I have dated older men and not all are like that but I did not start till it was legal, you don't need trouble. Who knows maybe he is just a nice guy who winks, or he thinks your good looking but that's it.
hope this helps good luck
2007-01-21 05:35:52 · answer #2 · answered by Just a girl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
provide up the smile back and ask him if he has some variety of scientific difficulty that makes his outstanding/left eye seem to be winking each and every so often. do no longer make the question very own like including at me after winking. this could be sufficient to get him to provide up. are you able to in all probability get this wink captured on video without him understanding? If he does not provide up with the above hint tell him flat out you do no longer delight in the wink component. If he nevertheless does not provide up you recognize what to do, ask to be located with a distinctive instructor.
2016-12-16 09:55:53 · answer #3 · answered by mundell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is no accepatabe reason for this teacher to wink at you.a man of his age knows that what he is doing is sexual in nature, and he is not just playing around. men usually dont send signals like that just for the harmless hell of it. it is subtle, easy for the other students not to notice, and easy to deny. he wants to send a message to you, to see if you will bite. shame on him. he knows you will be flattered, and may have targeted you because of your shyness. please ignore his signals and dont give any signals back , or just mouth the words 'no' next time. he is out of line
2007-01-21 05:53:04 · answer #4 · answered by DEBI M 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he will be the next on tv for teacher having sex with female students talk to your mom and stop smiling back cause you are giving the yeah im interested .. dont keep letting it go on for your shake dont want to see something happen that will hurt you for life.
2007-01-21 05:27:58 · answer #5 · answered by tweettreat 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2007-01-21 05:25:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋