When i meet a girl, I don't now what to say, and I don't find things to talk about, how can I do well there?
2007-01-21 05:14:01 · 14 answers · asked by catch_the_vapours88 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell yourself you're not the only one who thinks that way. And here is a bit of advice. IF you don't know what to talk about, could it be because you don't have anything to say? Don't blabber about the weather or other inane crap. PLUS, DON'T TALK ABOUT YOURSELF. Ask her about her without straying into the pervert zone. If you're curious about a girl, ask her a question about what you're thinking. And here's another TIDBIT of info. Just because she's a girl, doesn't mean it's "sexpartner or bust"...they can be platonic friends too. So approach with the goal of fellowship and take it from there. Friends can last forever, girlfriends...not so long.
2007-01-21 05:23:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Along the same lines, and I don't mean to sound mean, but I once read, if you are bored, then you are probably boring. If you have nothing to say, maybe you need to learn more about the world and your immediate surroundings. There are always things to talk about. Also, what works for me is, if I really like a guy, I try to get into friendship mode with him before we talk so I don't get silly and nervous. Guys seem to like me when I'm being myself, but if I'm crazy about someone, sometimes its' hard to be myself. So if I convince myself beforehand to treat him like a friend, it always works out well. Good luck to you!
2007-01-21 05:28:39 · answer #2 · answered by Lalalalalala 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Smile alot but don't freak her out by over exaggerated smiles. Talk about anything you want to. Ask her what she likes to do and what are he interests. Or you can start making fun of someone, but make sure it's just harmless. Laughter is always the best ice breaker.
2007-01-21 05:20:46 · answer #3 · answered by Valencia 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Walk up to any girl and say "The doctors warned me about your amnesia,I am your husband lets go home" If it works,you are already done. If it does not it will at least make her laugh and give you a chance to say something like "Oh, that's right, I have the amnesia. then go on with the conversation.
2007-01-21 05:22:34 · answer #4 · answered by onelonevoice 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try just smiling and saying 'Hi' and telling her your name ... then tell her that you 'have a lot of trouble talking to girls/women, but that she's so attractive you just HAD to try! She may 'shine you on' but most will be charmed and talk back ... just answer her questions and you'll have a few of your own ... good luck.
2007-01-21 05:21:06 · answer #5 · answered by Kris L 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Practice. Just keep doing it until you are good at it, and then it will flow naturally.
You don't hear people complaining how can I become an accomplished architect without studying architecture, drafting, etc. Everything good takes work.
2007-01-21 05:20:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
be yourself talk about things you like an see if you have things in common. music, movies come on there are things to talk about to anyone just dont try to be so cool that you look more like a fool..
2007-01-21 05:21:17 · answer #7 · answered by tweettreat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk about things you both enjoy.things you want to do in the future or things you have done in the past that were funny.it will keep her interested in you and help you loosen up
2007-01-21 05:20:21 · answer #8 · answered by starr67 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you probably havent met the right girl yet :) when you find the right one you will sure have things to talk about!!
2007-01-21 05:19:36 · answer #9 · answered by goldenheartcity 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
stop meeting girls until you gain the confidence and self esteem to even be able to start and complete a conversation complete with your OWN ideas, thoughts and mack.
2007-01-21 05:18:50 · answer #10 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋