Im too shy...waaaay too shy and I do have guys who are my very good friends but nothing romantic comes out of it and I end up seeing them as my brothers.
Not only that, but Im not a party girl and I dont go out looking for any guy that walks by me. I truly think that when its meant to be it will happen.
What do guys think about girls that have never had a boyfriend?
2007-01-21 05:13:55 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Let me tell you, sweetheart! You are a prize! I'm serious. My daughter had her first boyfriend when she was 18 and nothing makes a momma more proud than to see that she has raised a respectable, loving, honest, and beautiful daughter. She is happy and has no regrets. I doubt you will have regrets, either. You are correct in saying it will happen. Trying to make something out of nothing is the recipe for disaster. Just be patient. Proud of who you are and confident that you will meet someone who deserves YOU! You are special and keep it that way! Your turn will come!
2007-01-21 05:23:36 · answer #1 · answered by enjoyrselves 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
If you have guys who value you as a good friend, that's much better than having them as a casual boyfriend. Boyfriends come and go...true friends stick around. It sounds like you don't have a problem at all with who you are. I think you just have very high standards. DON'T fall to the pressure of dressing provocatively or becoming a party girl! Just keep being who you are.
But, the problem I see, is that you just can't figure out how to meet people! It's tough, but there are other places besides bars. Try getting involved in community events geared towards college students. Your local college probably has some, and so do a lot of churches. Also, you may be pleasantly surprised by on-line dating....and likewise, it can be quite discouraging. Just remember, you may have to sift through 30 bad profiles to find one good one. But that's all you're looking for is ONE! and don't forget about those male friends of yours. They can offer you lots of insight on how guys feel. GOOD LUCK!
2007-01-21 05:31:30 · answer #2 · answered by chickaboo72 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't feel bad. You sound a lot like me. I was 22 when I had my first (and only) relationship. I'm now 23 and single again. Don't rush things. The right one will come along. If you're in school, then that's a good place to meet them. But beware of guys that are only trying to be with you because they want to be the "first." I think most guys like girls who've never had a man because they have this innocent nature about them, sorta like the ideal type of woman for marriage. In the meantime, enjoy the freedom of being single!
2007-01-21 05:31:22 · answer #3 · answered by wallflower 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with that at all. Many people of all types (yes, even those "perfect 10" types) don't have a significant other until way later on in life. I'm not into partying, hook-ups, etc., either. Just try to keep your head up, your time will come.
2007-01-21 05:27:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think of it like this: When you DO find a boyfriend, he'll be the lucky one, rather than you, so don't worry about it, or become stressed that he'll be your first. You'll know for sure when the right one comes along and he'll know too !
2016-03-29 07:39:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good for you. As people around you getting pregnant, VD, herpes (1 out of 5), AIDS, and emotionally distressed, you are instead focusing on somethng more important like education, carreer, and future. By the time you are ready for marriage you'll be one of the few at your age who's still sweet and untouched.
No???
2007-01-21 05:24:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm 18 years old and I've never had boyfriend. I am shy too. I guess guys like wild girls
2007-01-21 10:14:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
from a girls opinion.you are totaly right.when it's time for love love will come all by itsself.you dont have to worry.and most of guys like when they are some girls first bf.it makes them feal more confident.you have the time.
2007-01-21 05:20:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have no problem with it...
but im just like you (except im a guy, lol)
ive been in a relationship for bout a month (so it wasnt really anything, so idont count it) other then that nuthin, people that are shy, nice, and funny, dont get far in this world, is what ive noticed.....because im one of those guys.....
2007-01-21 05:24:10 · answer #9 · answered by 88 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No offence, bu mabby ure a lesbian...
hey...i'm 22 + when i didn't have a boyfriend 4 prom, i took a lesbian girl, she was the only other person who wanted 2 go but didn't have a date. She kissed me that night, + we broke up after 2 months, but i haved kissed guys on dares and never felt sparks, maby you are lesbian?
i am loud + proud and you should be too... no matter what your orentation is, try this...
i still find certain guys HOTT and attractive, do you?
i then found a playboy and looked in it, + yeah... things happend when i found another girl @ the store looking @ one too...
we wen't back to her place, try looking at male AND female porn, eighther you will be discusted with one or the other, or you'll like both, then experiment...
still like guys...go to a club
girls...go to a lesbian club
both, have a three some, they're interesting...
if you have to...just kiss a random guy on the street...you should find him attractive... or go to gay/lesbian cummunities + kiss a girl... either way you'll be happily ever after
also, you can get some at yahoo! personals, hope you can love some one that loves you
2007-01-21 05:35:02 · answer #10 · answered by westgxcfreak 3 · 0⤊ 6⤋