the player flirts with a lot of girls and my friends tell me he does too.When i as him he says it isn't true but it's like everyday people are telling me he is doing the same thing.The boy who says he cares about me has broken my heart many times before but says he won't do it again. Who should I choose?
2007-01-21 05:04:56 · 26 answers · asked by buddafly 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
u should choose somone whos not a playa and dont break ur heart, meaning somone else besides those 2.
2007-01-21 05:16:12 · answer #1 · answered by herimos 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would just sit back and relax for a bit. Why choose either one right now? You've got some time. Enjoy yourself, see what happens. The player may wise up, maybe not, and if not you wouldn't want to live a life that he would give you. The heart breaker, well, he'll probably do it again because he's already started to make a habit of it. There really are more guys out there than these two. I promise! Several you haven't met yet that will adore you and worship the ground you walk on but they are respectable guys, so if you're with someone else (like one of these two) the nice guy will leave you alone and you will miss out. Don't pass up what you're actually waiting for! Wait for it, girl!
2007-01-21 13:17:34 · answer #2 · answered by enjoyrselves 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look sometimes love can blind you. If you know that a guy is a player and you decide to be with him anyway. In the end he is going to break you're heart. But then you have the other guy who has broken you're heart many times. I think that maybe it might be time to find someone else. But you have to ask you're self how many times do you want to get you're heart broken? Every person deserves to be happy. If you feel that this guy can be different this time then stay with him but if not dont be affraid to let him go. I am sure that there is some other guy out there that is much better for you and that can make you happy.
2007-01-21 13:18:07 · answer #3 · answered by sydney bristow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should let both of them get off the bus. Be friends with the one who's broken your heart and let him know what you're afraid of. Make him prove that he's changed. As for the player is this what you know or what you heard? Because girls will tell you things and get you involved in a bunch of he say she say. If you see the makings of a player then let him off at the next bus stop!
2007-01-21 13:17:02 · answer #4 · answered by diamoniquejazz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, your girls wouldn't lie to you about your man aka "player" They have your best interests at heart. Lose him, because he doesn;t care as much as he says if he has to flirt with other women. Now to the "heart breaker". Someone once said, "The man who is worth your tears will never make you cry." Girl, I would find me a new man. There are more men out there than players and heart breakers.
2007-01-21 13:15:59 · answer #5 · answered by Laura S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't chose either of them. The "player" is obviously not gonna be faithful to you, which is gonna end up hurting you. And the one who broke your heart is just gonna end up doing it again and again. You're better then both of them, so find a guy who will treat you right.
2007-01-21 13:16:39 · answer #6 · answered by Alisha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the answer is none....player and other boy will break your heart. I'm sure their are better boys who like you....but if you really want to go out with one then that depends who you trust your heart with more, or if you want more of a fun relationship than a serious one, go with the player...but i'm sure he'll break your heart, so becareful
2007-01-21 13:25:20 · answer #7 · answered by :) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should find out your self, u should go out with da boy who cares, but still find out if it's true, because some friends can lye. you should study them too, then see who is the right boy for u. go for the one who cares because you can't go out with a player that will break ur heart, leave him and move on.
2007-01-21 13:22:13 · answer #8 · answered by Lady 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now why would you want to be with a "player"? I think you need to forget about BOTH these guys and move on. They will both only break your heart again. You deserve better.
2007-01-21 13:10:14 · answer #9 · answered by Lace 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think that you should choose whoever you want but there are effects to whom you choose. if you choose the player, when the 2 of you go out, he might cheat on you. if you choose the boy whose broken your heart, he may do it again and everytime you go back with him, you are giving him the reason to keep asking you to get back with him
2007-01-21 13:18:59 · answer #10 · answered by babygrl1989 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋