i am young (13) and all the guys that like me dont like to show it....and when you go out with them they avoid you and act scared. does this ever change?
2007-01-21 04:44:22 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
They're completely immature, not all of them, but most. Sad to say...but it doesn't go away anytime soon >.>
2007-01-21 04:51:42 · answer #1 · answered by Alisha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Violet,
Yes, things CAN change------there is always room for change!
It's a FIRST that I've ever heard of a guy avoiding you and getting scared!!!!!!!!! Well, they must be young too, and probably had their share of being hurt in the past, might explain WHY some guys don't show when they like you. Because of that, some guys find it hard to "wear their heart on their sleeve".
You have a long time to get to know different people. My advice, don't FALL for a guy and don't get serious. You have plenty of time to meet "Mr right" in your young life, SO, make good use of your life now! Study hard and put SCHOO:L FIRST, ok? The dating scene can wait!
I have a Daughter turning 12 in March.
2007-01-21 05:02:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes honey, that will change soon. Very very soon. Give it a couple years and everything will be the complete opposite. Mainly, guys your age are still worried too much about what people think and it is a fact that women mature much faster than men. Just hang in there, you'll be alright. But also, don't be too eager to date. I know you want to experience it, but guys are so much trouble. Not all of them, but most.
2007-01-21 04:48:41 · answer #3 · answered by chanteuse87 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, it changes when they get a few years older. when i was 13, and i went out w/ this guy- he was so scared he wouldn't even talk to me. but my bf now, he cant get enough of me. he calls me everyday, always wants to go out, its so much better.
just act like u dont like them bak- they might shape up
2007-01-21 04:48:41 · answer #4 · answered by neverland22 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm 22 and this guy I work with likes me, and he does that sometimes..doesn't show it. Completely ignores me. Then he flirts a day later. This my dear, won't change. lol
2007-01-21 04:48:18 · answer #5 · answered by Goodbye 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will change eventually, most of them are probably on a first date and are nervous, just relax and go with it
2007-01-21 04:48:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I understand, I have those similar questions. i imagine rather some White adult adult males like Black women folk, yet for even if ridiculous reason they're ashamed of it. this may be why you hardly ever see them with us, yet you sometimes see Black adult adult males with White women folk because they purely do not care.
2016-10-15 21:34:43 · answer #7 · answered by cohan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There just young... dont worry about it. have fun
2007-01-21 04:51:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it changes as you and the guys get mature...good luck cya
2007-01-21 04:47:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
yh eventually
2007-01-21 04:51:19 · answer #10 · answered by lil titch 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋