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I have a 18yr old daughter that is with an elite Army plattoon. The guys in her group don't want a girl with them even though she is smarter and more trained than any of them. They have physically hit her and the staff seargant of one of the plattons have asked her out.
She is scared that these guys won't watch her back in Iraq and I am afraid I agree. Why do women soliders still face discrimination? They do everything the guys do now including dying for our country.
Any suggestions on how she can deal with this. She is headed to the front lines in March and she is afraid if she tells on these people she will be treated worse by the Army.It's sad when you are going to war and you can't trust your fellow soldiers.

2007-01-21 03:48:15 · 18 answers · asked by loyd392003 1 in Politics & Government Military

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Write to your Congress. A Congressional will stop all of their nonsense! Back in the 1970's I was one of the first females placed in an Infantry Unit. They didn't want us either, but we learned how to jack them up from within and without, meaning mothers and fathers exposing it! She must be very Intelligent to get into that Unit. They will either start rumors that she is loose, because she won't "sleep with any of them" or do as you say they have already done. Sounds like it is time for you to have a Press Conference Mom on your daughter's behalf!

Contact American Legion and The Women's Army Corp in Virginia. Letters from them make knuckle-dragging Neanderthals Back up! If she can hold her own. She is going to have to demand respect. Turn them over to the National Organization of Women. That should stop them cold.

2007-01-21 03:58:55 · answer #1 · answered by Sassy 3 · 1 2

Come on....they will watch her back. WTH are you talking about? So some of the guys think she's cute and asked her out. BFD! They're human. I've seen way to many women cry discrimination in the military, but the thing that gets me is.....they expect to be treated as"women".Whenever they get their little feelings hurt,they cry discrimination.If they don't get their way,they cry discrimination. IT'S THE FRIGGIN MILITARY...EITHER YOU CAN HACK IT OR YOU CAN'T.Why should she be babied and catered to? There has got to be more to this situation than what you and your daughter are saying.Instead of blaming the male soldiers....you should blame the females in the military that complain harrassment every time they don't get their way.That is what happens more than discrimination against women. I've heard of military women who complained harrassment because they had menstrual cramps and didn't want to do Physical fitness and were made to do it anyway.There is a lot less harrassment in the military than in the past. Military personell will always protect eachother no matter if you're male or female.Get real.

2007-01-21 04:04:00 · answer #2 · answered by ? 7 · 2 1

I raise another question:Do women NEED to fight wars?:
useless destruction of mankind wherein a political leader's whims and fancies are carried out,like Bush Jr's vengeance upon Saddam in Iraq?
Every woman must be taught the best self defense...women are far better utilized in Mil intelligence and special operations.You need idiots [d***h***s] to wage wars for you carry out orders without thought or consideration.Women are the deacons of society...they must live so a nation can survive.

I implore all women..being a woman is being a soldier period.You are a soldier of your home.At the end of the day,Soldiers protect homes more than guard a nation's boundaries.Ten-hut!Saluting Womanhood!
Over and out.

2007-01-21 05:55:20 · answer #3 · answered by grey_natter 1 · 0 1

I am a veteran myself and no offense but it would be impossible for her to be in an elite platoon because women are not allowed in combat MOS's (jobs). In all actuality, I have only been out 4 yrs and when i was in women got preferential treatment as opposed to what you say. They were allowed to come back from the field every 3 days to shower and we had to stay the entire month without a shower. They were not yelled at as much or forced to the same standards physically as we were. So, I find it hard to believe all of this unless she has done something to bring this on. I hope things get better for your daughter but I still believe female soldiers get better treatment than us males. I didn't work first hand with any women because I was in the INfantry and its a combat position therefore no women could be in my unit( women are still not allowed to be in combat arms positions) but I knew several and saw them and how they were treated. I do pray for her safety though and thank her for serving our country as well despite my negative comments, i support all of my fellow soldiers.. man or woman.

2007-01-21 03:55:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1 1

Smarter and well trained isn't enough. Will an 18 year old female who probably weighs about 105-110 be able to throw an injured soldier on her shoulders to carry him to safety, if this soldier weighs about 200? Yes, it is sad that she has to face blatant discrimination, sexual harrassment, etc. But combat and combat-like situations are extremely physical. But a male soldier is generally going to be stronger than a female soldier. Blame biology.

2007-01-21 04:23:26 · answer #5 · answered by The Maestro 4 · 0 2

From what I shop seeing contained in the information, examining contained in the paper, responses from human beings, it is like Turkey has held the Christian international hostage or something. or maybe this Armenian Genocide subject wasn't a danger to end Turkey from going into Northern Iraq. even nevertheless there is not any longer something new approximately how Turkey often freaks out, I propose as quickly as occasion of anti-turkishness and all hell breaks loose. is this the form of united states of america we extremely need to count number on? are not there bases in Kuwait we are able to apply? what approximately in 2003? we had no issues invading iraq whilst turkey grow to be denying bases. Turkey does what Turkey needs no rely if united states of america of america likes it or no longer. i discover it humorous how in 2000 GWB reported he might comprehend the genocide, repeatedly and yet lower back. I additionally locate it humorous why maximum folk commplain as to why they ought to care approximately something that take place ninety years pass? Oh right that's a information flash, maximum of united states of america of america has a faith called christianity, that's numerous thousand years previous. Why can we nevertheless carry to that? regrettably, i dont comprehend what variety of excuse this makes for the the remainder of the international.

2016-10-07 12:13:22 · answer #6 · answered by duchane 4 · 0 0

It's not like that all over.

Here is a great example of what female soldiers can do and we are VERY proud of them.

Kentucky girls don't mess around and can flat out shoot.

Google Raven 42 or just hit this link...

http://www.punditreview.com/2006/06/26/someone-you-should-know-raven-42/

2007-01-21 03:58:15 · answer #7 · answered by ? 6 · 1 0

It's a fine line nowadays with equality and sensitivity. Chances are, the physical requirements were reduced to allow women to get into these units, and now the women say they are equal when it ain't necessarily so. Hopefully, in stressful situations, these male soldiers will be much more protective of her than she now believes.

Most likely, she has done her share to alienate herself from them just as they may have contributed to it also.

The training these dedicated people receive gives me great faith in their professionalism and camaraderie. I wish her the best of luck.

2007-01-21 03:58:19 · answer #8 · answered by snvffy 7 · 1 1

I don't know where this latOria got her info at....either she is lying, or whoever told her that is lying. I have spent the most of my 26 years of service with and around Marines, and I've NEVER heard of one case of this.
Just more spin to try and make U.S. servicemen look bad because they disagree with the conflict.

2007-01-21 06:03:04 · answer #9 · answered by jonn449 3 · 1 0

You have some very honest points and well taken and good luck to your daughter, how ever, to be honest, if I am getting mugged, I would rather have 6' 200lb. male cop come my aid than a 90 lb. old woman...it is just the truth...it is physical...I hope she is going to be okay, this can't be easy...good luck to you both.

2007-01-21 03:53:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3 1

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