I together with my bf for 5 years.
There are lots of good memory in our love. But ...also lots of fights because we got lots of comunication problem .We ever separeate 1 year. Than he came back to me. But now...again...we fight again and no keep and touch for 3 monthes. I am so helpless about this situation. I try to ask lots of ways...like fortune-telling...All fortune-telling told me that our love is over... I really sad...I can not believe it is true. We met each other and had lots of happy. But now...tell me it is over...I don't want to just give up.Can I do something to get back my love? Can I do something to let out love contiune? Can I pray?how?I really treasure our love ...but I really don't know why we always fight!!! I am very very upset...If you have advise please teach me
I do treasure this relationship. I do believe he also confuse our situation too...Please teach me how to do...thank you very much
2007-01-21 03:24:59 · 8 answers · asked by 7* 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Dear all of you guys, thank you very much. I did communicate lots of times. But it seems not working...my bf seems scare...and every time I try to communicate,,,finally become I lose my way....because it will be more fight and become my mistake. (I know not who's fault!!!) I don't know what's wrong !!! I really do wish we can have peace love relationship...
2007-01-21 03:51:03 · update #1
I really truely want to do some bright way to make we be better. Really do want. If some one who can share with me the way, who can advise me the way...please~ mail to me: ils_11@hotmail.com
My heart really pain. I really do wish can find some hope in here.
By the way~ I am a Chinese. So my English is not very well...But really do wish you guys can let me know how I can do..Thank you very much
2007-01-21 04:00:45 · update #2
Prayer is not like rubbing a Jeannie lamp and getting three wishes.
2007-01-21 03:29:25 · answer #1 · answered by EmeraldSun 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It takes two to fight, and if you're doing so, it's pretty clear that you are not entirely sure you want this relationship.
Whenever you feel yourself getting defensive, you stop caring for the other person and you start defending your territory. The relationship stops (for that moment) having any importance in your life.
If you guys can't stop fighting and start really WORKING to fix the problems, then the poison pattern will continue.
Try getting into some counseling. If prayer helps you stop your own role in the fighting, then do that, too.
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2007-01-21 03:33:15 · answer #2 · answered by NHBaritone 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Praying is a waste of time. There are no magic words you can say to make everything all better.
Instead, try working on your relationship. Communicate with each other. Try to re-establish that spark that you had before. Perhaps if you did less talking to air, and talked to your boyfriend instead, you would have a closer relationship.
One man with a hammer can do more good than a billion people praying.
2007-01-21 03:27:37 · answer #3 · answered by nondescript 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
You cannot make someone love you back....and if you could would you want them. Love should be given freely and without expectation of return. If he loves you then he will come back and you will be able to work it out. You can love someone and be unable to be with them due to conflict, that simply means you should move on. Give him space and see what happens. But do not put your life on hold for wanting him to come around to you. You will only end up miserable and lonely.
2007-01-21 03:32:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-31 22:06:14 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are not meant to be with this person, then all the praying in the world will not help. Just ask God for His help in finding you the person your supposed to be with( if any at all ). Ask Him for strength to help you get over this other person so you can move on to what God has in store for you.
2007-01-21 03:33:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
The best way 2 pray and find back love is to pray to me , say Gary my lord pls help me, then u will get real help fast
2007-01-21 03:30:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Prayer is for the best of all. The answer just might be to move you along...are you prepared for all answers? God does not fulfil our own desires...He has his desires for us.
2007-01-21 03:30:25 · answer #8 · answered by jmmevolve 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋