Ive been with someone for three years. but recently, ive had HUGE feelings for another person. we get on really well. he's one of those people that i can just talk to for hours and never have to think what to say. i'm 16 now. And i've been with my boyfriend since i was 13. we've kind of grown up together. And we're so close. I love him so much. I mean, i feel so good when im with him. He has cheated on me before, but that was in our first year of being together. But i've never had the thrill of being with someonelse. I've never kissed anyone but him. I've never done anything with anyone but him. My first time was with him.. Thats a big thing to me. I love him so, so much. And i feel so bad about liking someonelse. Also, i talk to this other boy everyday. we're close. have been for months. I havnt told him i like him. But i know he likes me. All he ever goes on about is how great we'd be together. I'm just so stuck. Please help me...
2007-01-21 03:19:30 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Other - Health
From 13 to sixteen you've wasted your time with 1 guy. Sweet young lady. You have so much live to live & feel. Break up a while it would both of you good. It is a true saying if love is meant to be it will. I can understand your 1 st long time boy friend but your missing so much. You will be out of high school soon, don't waste some of the BEST years in your life spending all of your time & world rotating around him. I hope I gave you something to think about.
2007-01-21 11:19:05 · answer #1 · answered by Blues Man 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow sounds like a real problem. if you love your bf then maybe you should just stay with him and stay loyal. but if you find that you're just attracted to this guy way more and have a lot of stuff in common then maybe take some time and think this through. talk to one of your friends mayb. but i would think of the past with ur bf. because you've been with him for 3 years, which is a lot, and you know him Really well. but if your feeling sort of distant you mite be in love with this other guy because he's already saying that he likes you. i mean there's always a first love right?
2016-05-24 05:17:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, 13 is WAY too young to make life decisions. And 16 is not that much better. You're setting yourself up for a lifetime of heartbreak at least.
Talk to your parents, or a school counsellor. And take a little time to be yourself before you actually try attaching yourself to a guy again.
Good luck.
2007-01-21 03:30:12 · answer #3 · answered by Tigger 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋