hes a sweetheart, but we never hang out except for at school. I have gone to all of his wrestling meets, and hes come to my house once, but he never calls to ask me to go somewhere. the other day i asked him if he wanted to go to a basketball game, he said "no, im not too into b-ball", so i went anyway, after i had left half way through, he calls me wondering where i was!
3 months 1 real date!
also i dont feel the spark i did before, and when hes not around i look at other guys.
wat should i do!? and how should i do it?
2007-01-21 02:50:15 · 17 answers · asked by Kiery 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just dump him. He's a loser!! You guys are getting anywhere in the relationship. oh wait! it doesnt even sound like a relationship! hahahaha serisouly though. just move on and find yourself another guy who is more outgoing and who will appreciate you..
oh and another thing...maybe he's gay? lol
hmmmm
just let him know that it's not working out. that you need more"exitement" and just flat out tell him that he's boring. and you don't feel like you are wanted sometimes. and that you want someone to show you atttention.. Oh yeah and don't forget to slip in the : "it's not you...it's me!" and that you just need to move on with your life and date other people because I feel like "we" aren't getting anywhere.
I mean just been honest and blunt with him. tell him what is brothering you. What bugs you and what he's not doing right that is making you unhappy in the relationship. and maybe he'll give it another try or accept that you are breaking up with him. And remeber what you told him next time he dates another girl he'll know what areas he needs to work on.
there's no spark. whats tghe point of staying with him. Don't stick around out of pitty for him. 3 months is nothing. it's useless to hold on to something that you don't give a sh*t about. you need to be happy! don't let him weigh you down. do what you need to get done. the sooner the better.
2007-01-21 08:12:57 · answer #1 · answered by blah blah 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
End it (kindly) and move on. This was never a real relationship anyway. You weren't "dating" you were a couple of people who kinda liked each other. Him coming to your house wasn't a date...it was a visit.
Apparently you two just aren't a good match, and that's okay. Let him know this and then both of you can be free to move on and perhaps meet others who would be more suitable.
2007-01-21 02:57:34 · answer #2 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a wrestler I can kind of understand where your boyfriend is coming from since it is a sport of dedication. Discuss this with him and ask if things will change after the season or if he will be like this always. Get rid of him if he doesnt make any real changes since he might not be in a good time of his life for a real relationship
2007-01-21 03:04:43 · answer #3 · answered by pfccochise 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DUMP HIM NOW !!!!! He'll never love you. and he'll never go away if he thinks he'll get the milk for free. Your friendship with Leanne should be more important to you then this jerk is and you should tell her what this guy is about. She won't want to believe you at first and might even be mad at you for a little while but at least you warned her. In the end you and Leanne will end up better friends and this guy will be long gone. I hope you haven't done anything with this guy you'll regret latter. Please don't give up you virginity to him. It sounds like he's working hard to get that and if you do he'll dump you right after he gets it. STOP NOW !!!! Save it for some one who loves you later in life !! This guy is bad news. Been there, done that!!!!
2016-05-24 05:11:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You already know the answer.
You sound like a real sweetheart, for putting up with this guy.
If you want a boyfriend, go out and get one. Your current "friend" is not ready for anything even romotly serious, so find someone who is.
Good luck
2007-01-21 02:57:24 · answer #5 · answered by Aunt Henny Penny 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. enjoy your life
2. talk to him about what you're feeling
3. if the spark isn't there either find it again or move-on
4. you're not going out if you've only gone out once in 3 months...
5. wait to be an adult before you start acting like an adult
2007-01-21 03:21:41 · answer #6 · answered by bl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its a simple answer to your situation.If you have no spark and you are also drawn to other males,Then its the wrong person you are considering. Better wait for the person who has the same chemistry and reacts equally to your feelings.Save your energy and move on for better opportunity.
2007-01-21 03:04:22 · answer #7 · answered by nana 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
another middle school love thing hu if u want that how things work till high school unless u and ur other freinds who should be guys and girls go to movies i was lucky i had a freind who had 20 of the hottest chicks as freind we all became freinds that after in the 5th grade i made him cool but really he had this one freind who was a girl she had many other freind girls to they became freinds then i did with them then we found out all the pretty loveely nice girls we were freinds with so that ******* sucked we dated about every one like u are with this guy only we never said we dated. it wasnet till 8th grade we knew all the good pretty nice girls are or friends who want to go out again so me and my home boys well my freinds were screwed till high school but somphere year we hit things off with the girls from other schools.
strange story off how things worked for me. and when ur not around he looks at other girls it happens if u want and write him a note very sincere still be freinds ur choice. hopefully he wasent screwed from 8th grade till beging 10th in 9th we really didnt hook up much.
2007-01-21 03:00:31 · answer #8 · answered by cactus78 p 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are waaaaaaay to young to be trapped at home. But since I do not know your age, you may not be old enough in your parents eyes to go out on a "real" date. Or his parents don't think he is old enough.
2007-01-21 02:55:31 · answer #9 · answered by {Lisa} 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say its up to you. Becuase it is all up to you. But really 3 months and one date? Is he into like football or baseball? maybe you could try one more time to a baseball or football game, or a movie. if you really didn't like that date. Break up with him.
2007-01-21 02:58:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋