I like this girl. But she is kinda popular and I am not really popular, there is a rumer that everyone knows I like her. I don't know what to do to make her see who I am. I am CRAZY about her. In easy words she is the only girl I ever wanted.
2007-01-21 01:48:28 · 18 answers · asked by Squill 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just be yourself......
2007-01-21 01:51:12 · answer #1 · answered by shaggy m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless she is already interested in you, any attempt to try to "make her like you" would more than likely backfire. So, here is your best chance... since the rumor is already out there, don't force the issue with her or anyone else. Try to be nonchalant about it. And most of all, be "confident" in yourself. Just because you are not part of the 'in-crowd' does not necessarily mean you are not popular. Some of the best and most genuine people are not part of the 'Jock/Cheerleader' crowd. Don't let your feelings of being crazy about her get the best of you. (You almost have to convince yourself that you don't want her that much... there really are other fish in the sea.)
In the next few weeks, just try to start conversations with her without any talk of feelings you might have for her or a relationship... if someone doesn't have those feelings in return, that will only push them away. At first, just say "Hi!" Then slowly try and show her the "real you". If you are her "type", then nature will take its course. But remember, if being popular is important to her, and she is shallow, peer pressure is a powerful force. There won't be anything you can do about it. Just keep your dignity and always say nice things about people.
2007-01-21 10:20:15 · answer #2 · answered by Steve A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she's popular and you're not then you should seriously think about getting over her. Stop thinking about all what you see in the movies. Real life is not like that because you'll get further in life on a personal level by only being yourself.
Do not fall into a pattern of being unfaithful to yourself. You should be first and foremost crazy about "you."
So in other words take a step back and look at you and ask what don't you like about you. If you like everything about you then there is nothing you can do to get this girl.
2007-01-21 10:00:57 · answer #3 · answered by cinattra 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't force anyone to like you...but confidence is a huge turn on. If she's really that popular, she probably has babbling idiots trying to get into her pants all day long. Be different. Be a gentleman. Talk to her like she's just another human being and not the most beautiful creature on the face of the planet. If you can strike up a good conversation, say you've been wanting to see --insert movie here-- and your friends have already seen it, would she go with you.
2007-01-21 09:53:04 · answer #4 · answered by Jen H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a sucker for guys who make an effort to impress me.
If they act sensitive and sweet, and do SWEET gestures I can take notice to, I will start to get attracted to them.
ex. Valentine's Day is coming up... Chocolate's and Flowers. If she is really sweet and girly, A POEM. Poetry are a way to a girl's heart. Guys think it is too mushy. It isn't.
Also, show interest in what she has to say. Ask her questions about her, and you also open up about the things in your life too.
Ask her out directly, not indirectly. If she is not very interested in you, then go indirectly. If you know she likes you. Directly and express your feelings to her.
This stuff should have her eating out of your palm.
2007-01-21 09:53:58 · answer #5 · answered by freezie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, u have to b the one to ask her oput, cos other wise nothings ever goin to happen, cos if she is popular she'll just be waiting for someone to ask her out, and won't do any of the asking herself. Also, maybe just leave a typed note in her locker, or share a snack with her(preferably her fav snack food)and just try to become friends to begin with. Also, don'y go bright red whenever u c her!
2007-01-21 09:53:21 · answer #6 · answered by buddhistsheep 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are lot of dating sites out now... If your on speaking terms with her, that's a good sign. A simple "Hi," is good enough in this situation is good enough. She might soon notice you and strike up conversations. Compliment her, but don't go over board or make it too obvious. After you have had a few or more good conversations with her..... ask her out. By now you should have a good idea of who she is and what she does.
2007-01-21 09:54:32 · answer #7 · answered by warhead 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you've gotta be her friend first! hang out with her at school, then maybe after you guys are sorta good friends, invite her to go see a movie or something, in other words, move your friendship from school to public, then, later on, take her to another movie, lean over and ask her out, that way, if she says yes, you have a whole movie to.. well you know, and if she says no, you have a whole movie to.. recoop :0p hope it helps!
2007-01-21 09:51:49 · answer #8 · answered by christin@ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get to know her. Do you just like her cause shes beautiful or because of how she acts. I bet its because shes really hot. Well anyhoo you have to get to know what she likes. Get to know her friends ( Which are probably jocks ) but dnt change yourself too much just be yourself and if she doesnt like you for that than shes not worth a moment of your time.
2007-01-21 09:53:17 · answer #9 · answered by Damien 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If i knew the answer i would tell I am in the exact same situation i am not popular she is,I think i like i think she does tooo. but i do not know how start, if you know what i mean.
this kinda worked, just try talkng to her. that'll porbably start something.
2007-01-21 09:52:57 · answer #10 · answered by USMC 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first ask yourself this: WHY do i like her? is it because she's "hot"?
Have you ever actually had a REAL conversation with her?
Do you know anything about her?
ask yourself these questions and then, ONLY then will you be able to really know if your "crazy about her" or not...~
:-I
2007-01-21 09:58:21 · answer #11 · answered by Hαír Pεace Šmûrƒ Pεαce 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋