do u think i should love that gal who is 1000 miles away she is gud and kind hearted gal but she does'nt miss call me or message me when i need her she thinks that I will call her and talk 4 hrs... help me ppl plz......i am in total loss of memory is she avoding me or does'nt she love me....
2007-01-21 01:07:02 · 24 answers · asked by mundaka 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
SHE IS IN LOVE WITH YOU BUT GIVE HER SOMTIMES.
2007-01-24 21:42:39 · answer #1 · answered by RAMAN IOBIAN 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What can I say is. Anyone could fall in love to somebody whether they are on the same place or at different places. It doesn't matter if that someone is in the other side of the world, what is important is that you loved each other and understanding and perseverance are with you both. Why I have said these because it happens to me my husband is from the other side of the world and we had hard times together communicating each other and it is very hard that you love someone you never meet but we believe and sacrifice, wait and now we just got marraid, but at your situation I can see that your gf is not worthy for your love as she doesn't show it. She doesn't give you back her sincerity and love. The thing that she thinks and want you to call her for 4 hours even if you can't is not called love. Love never Demands, love never questioned and love never fears. So maybe try to start talking to people or girls, we don't know you'll meet the right one. Try slowly to let her go, coz when you can do it you can see that you are right on your decision and that you will meet someone more than her. So good luck and cheer up don't be sad or discourage. As long as we live there is still hope. You'll meet the one you really wish to meet. Just have faith and believe. Dream, Believe and Survive!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!Go for it....
2007-01-21 01:31:05 · answer #2 · answered by choco_mochababe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a lie. If she was really too good for you, you'd be holding on like you were a fat kid and she was cake. Lets be honest...you've found someone else that you want to date and this is your lame break up line. Saying that you love her as a friend is useless, if you're breaking up with her. Just tell her you've moved on mentally, and that you want to have some space.
2016-05-24 04:40:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Long distance relationships are possible, but very difficult even under ideal circumstances.
What you describe does not sound ideal. It takes two people to be in a relationship, and what you're describing sounds like you're the only one involved.
If by "picshe" you mean psychic, don't live your life by what they tell you. Psychics and mediums mean trouble: They are either inspired by the devil (if they're "real"), or they're fakes. Either way, they're lying to you, whether they get a few facts straight or not. Steer clear of making decisions based on what one of them might tell you - that will mean bondage for the rest of your life.
As for the girlfriend who lives far away and acts aloof, talk to her calmly, honestly, and tell her how you feel, and ask her why she's behaving that way. Based on her response, do what you believe is best for YOU.....but be prepared to make a break if you have to.
Wishing you all the best -
2007-01-21 01:15:16 · answer #4 · answered by CassandraM 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This chit-chatting on the net has made you lost your mind!!! LOL!! Well, what you can do is tell her to show you her face, because if she really loves you, she will, because she wanna be close to you sometimes, wanna meet you so she wil have to do it!! Then, if you like her, you move on, i mean you talk to her and tell her to missed call u when she is online or anything, but if she really loves you, don't you think that she needs you? But you said that she never missed-call you, that's quite fishy!! Well, you have to talk to her seriously and take a good decision, a good one. And remember whatever you say must be intelligently, good luck and be happy!!!
2007-01-21 01:24:16 · answer #5 · answered by Neha A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not quite sure if I read this correctly but if she doesnt ever message you or call you then yes she may be avoiding you.Long distance relationships are very hard. Has she sent you pics of her as well?? be careful and best of luck. (Not that pics are that important it takes so much more to have a good relationship than sharing pics and a few messages,time will tell
2007-01-21 01:14:29 · answer #6 · answered by teresa.hereford@sbcglobal.net 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wooo.... same with me u know my love is 6000 milses away u know i dont call him he use to call me but every day i miss call him 40-88 times i am not able to send message to him because when ever i send message it does not reach him but i mail him i think some problem would be there and she is helpless facing some problem with cell try to contect her with e mail say her to email i hope she is not avoding u some problem is there or her parents has took her cell and plz try to contect her as fast as possible distance relationship is hard i know
she would be having problem because same thing happned to my love his no. was termenated and i was also thinking like this only .
try to make sms cheap that u can sms her dont talk we talk with eachother 3 times in week but dont think like this she is in trouble with cell or both of u mail each other
2007-01-21 01:36:49 · answer #7 · answered by "BE HONEST " 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The sad thing is you don't have a real relationship with this girl (who may or may not even be a girl) and only have a pic and conversations where she may just be leading you on to boost her self esteem and likely has other fellas on a line also.
Best to move on and stick to finding real girls to have real relationships with.
2007-01-21 01:22:03 · answer #8 · answered by bottleblondemama 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pleeeeze find another girl.
You need someone to be with and there are plenty of
gud and kind hearted girls everywhere.
Just don,t waste your time on someone who cannot
take the time to call or at least send a message.
Move on!!! You know it makes sense.!!!
2007-01-21 01:13:38 · answer #9 · answered by Minxy 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
long distant relationships are hard....... Its your choice....
Me? I would just be friends... Sounds like you are looking for someone more like you.... even though she maybe kind hearted, it takes 2 to make a relationship work... If this bothers you, and I think it does, I think you already know what you want out of a relationship and she is not giving in return....
You will find someone that you can relate to...
Best wishes to you............
2007-01-21 01:18:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give up and find a real girl,one that you can talk face to face with,anyway long distance relationships rarely work with lots of effort so i'd say your already screwed
2007-01-21 01:12:51 · answer #11 · answered by brat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋