i had this brief sexual thing going on with this man, i did not work out and we parted on good terms. i got this text from him accusing me of giving his number to one of my friends, i asked him what on earth was he going on about? he said that he has only slept with 2 girls since coming to this country, and all the facts point to me, i told him that i would not do such a thing and asked him what did the texts say, and why is it relevent that we had sex? and what are these facts? he then replied sorry it must have been a prank and he believes that i wouldnt do it and he does not want to discuss it further.
i was curious, particulary as the comments must have mentioned to do with sex, and i text him saying that i deserve some kind of fuller explanation , and got no response. i waited a day then text him saying that what had probably happened is that he was bragging about his consquest to his mates, and he was to stpid to work out that it was them that was doing it BUT.........
2007-01-21 01:03:50 · 25 answers · asked by raggyann 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
.... i dont think that he would have done it, i was just annoyed that he refused to text me back. I am also very curious and a bit paranoid, i never gave his number to anyone, but i do have some saucy texts still stored on my phone. there is no point in me texting him again, but am wondering if i should ring him. i just want to know if the facts did point to me, and what were the text about. i dont want us to be on bad terms, but am just puzzled about it all, we are both in our late 20's and both of us are not the type to play silly pranks.
what are your opinions on this? and should i give him a call and ask him to explain further? if so how should I approach it? I am not angry just curious adn a bit paranoid.
2007-01-21 01:09:02 · update #1
It's really easy to be confused with text messages. I would stop texting and pick up the phone... and I WOULD pick up the phone as it sounds like there's currently a lot of distrust on both sides and if you want to stay friends you need to resolve that.
Anyway, he's clearly upset by some sort of texting incident that has happened,and though he has accused you you seem to have forgiven him... so maybe he needs to talk about it? Anyway, my advice would be to give him a ring and see what happens.
Hope this helps and it all works out! :)
2007-01-21 02:58:11 · answer #1 · answered by Lyra B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could go all the way from him thinking he was texting one girl and did another to his lame attempt to get back at you for breaking up.
Do you break up or did he?
And look what he has done by doing this huh?
You know curiosity killed a cat. Let it go. You may be paying into his hand.
2007-01-21 01:20:41 · answer #2 · answered by John B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can you not see that he just wanted some contact with you and probably had no other way of starting a conversation? Maybe he wants to see you , you know what men are like!!!
He now thinks he has upset you and his little plan has gone out the window!
2007-01-21 01:11:42 · answer #3 · answered by The Weird One! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are all kind of weird text messages going around. A friend of mine sent me one that said "I heard somebody you slept with has Aids, you better get checked, this is serious..........but I do have good new...I just saved a load of money by switching to Geico" Just stupid stuff like that. I'm sure he didn't get the same one, but I forwarded this to my ex, who is Nigerian...and he didn't get it, and was pissed...maybe this guy was confused by a joke text....just a suggestion....that's the best case scenario.
2007-01-21 01:09:50 · answer #4 · answered by ~~kelly~~ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should leave it alone, he will think your bothering hie and. If your not together and it didnt work out and then he accused you of something you didnt do, then you dont to be with him, leave it alone and move on, Your better than that and there are plenty of of men out there that would love to be with you and care for you and also respect you.
2007-01-21 01:20:53 · answer #5 · answered by P_a94 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how niave, he wants to get talking to u again so he's invented this rubbish. He may want you back but he should have had the ba lls to just call you and say he wants you. Forget it it's a waste of time.
2007-01-21 04:54:12 · answer #6 · answered by Hot British Guy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give out his number or store them in public phone boxes thatll make him sweat and think who could be doing this I done it once and i found it hilarious
2007-01-21 01:54:27 · answer #7 · answered by liam.cornes 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably still wanted to see you and believe it or not, men will piss you off just so you will think about them (stupid... I know). He probably figured, "I'll call her and make up some crap and she'll call", which is exactly what you were about to do.
He's not worth it. Just remember you left him alone for a reason... NEXT! :)
2007-01-21 01:14:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like a real jerk. you need to go find yourself a real man who can take care of you like you diserve. you said mates. is he from austraillia. cause when i was there with the US army the girls flocked to us cause the men there asssshhholesss. and they just loved us american boys. just food for thought. good luck in the future.
2007-01-21 01:11:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
id leave it and forget about it, seems like he had some other girls on the go at the same time u were dating him, so much for parting on good terms huh ???
2007-01-21 02:09:19 · answer #10 · answered by a m 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋