when we go to clubs my friends often tell me that "go! dance with that guy behind you! he's been trying to dance with you all night!" or things like that. when a guy kept on dancing behind me or beside me and kept on looking at me, what should i do? I KNOW i sound weird but I'm just not the flirty type..ok, i really don't know how to flirt at all. so what should i do? should i just dance with him right away? do i have to talk to him or just let the dancing do the talking? i don't know....
2007-01-21 00:54:52 · 9 answers · asked by wicked 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
AND is their really a chance where you can meet someone in the club that COULD end up in a real good long (maybe even serious?) relationship?
2007-01-21 00:59:06 · update #1
when you are in a club you are there to have fun so there is no reason not to dance and have fun. you don't have to talk with him because the dancing will speak for itself. you will probably exchange names. who knows you may find somebody that you like and want to spend some time with. good luck!
2007-01-21 01:04:08 · answer #1 · answered by toyloy27 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dance with him as long as you feel it is appropriate. Enjoy dancing with him. You can talk to him afterwards if you want to. But if he is doing anything that you consider over the top...move away from him. Some guys can get a little too touchy feely on the dance floor.
As far as meeting someone in a club who can end up being good long term relationship material...I have two friends who met their husbands in a club. Most of the rest met them through college, work, and even online.
2007-01-21 00:58:55 · answer #2 · answered by kalea_kane 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I thought that that was one of the reasons people went out was to dance. No one is saying have sex with him. Just dance.If he wants to talk you can talk but you don;t have to. Why do you go out?
2007-01-21 01:04:45 · answer #3 · answered by Pamela V 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
isn't that why you go to a dance club...to dance? So dance and have fun.....good luck
2007-01-21 01:04:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's just a dance......but I have heard that you can tell if a guy is a good lover by the way he dances....
2007-01-21 00:59:47 · answer #5 · answered by Emily 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself and DONT WORRY! If you want to dance with him, go ahead. If you dont, it doesnt matter!
2007-01-21 00:59:34 · answer #6 · answered by Mikala 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when guy dance with you should have fun and enjoy drink lots of wine and sex
2007-01-21 00:58:37 · answer #7 · answered by 007 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Invite him for a dirty dance...
2007-01-21 01:00:03 · answer #8 · answered by Carl R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him you have a herpes outbreak on your hey nanny nanny and the blister broke and it burns really bad and the pus is dripping down your leg... see how fast he runs away!!!
2007-01-21 00:59:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋