any regrets?

Question

dose any one on here like me still regret things you did to like exes a long time ago what i mean is im married now and ive grown up alot since then but i used to not be a faithful person or i would break up with one girl for anouther or dated 2 at once and i didnt know who i wanted ive done all of thease things and now i feel really bad about it i just want to know if anyone else feels that way too because lord knows if i could go back id never put my self in that situation again!

Answer 1

Ye s all the time. With my exboyfriend I pushed him into a relationship. Always pushed him. I lost him in the end. I have been together with my boyfriend for two months now and when I look back on what I did to my ex boyfriend pushing him into a relationship after relationship it wasn't fair to him or to me. It was not worth a friendship that I held close to my heart. I wish I could take it back but I cant. Also, I would have had the guts to tell my ex boyfriend who is best friends with my boyfriend that I was dating his best Friend instead of having my boyfriend having to do it. After all the mistakes that I have made I learned what not to do. I learned from the mistakes. It made me wiser, stronger and much more of a better person.

Answer 2

Yes, I think we all have regrets. I think you definitely became a better person from just acknowledging your poor judgements in the past. Now I just suggest forgiving the person you were then and know that you're a greater person today. Just like when you did something stupid when you were a child and you look back and say what the heck was I thinking? Why did I do that? But then you realize, oh well I was just a child and with what I know now, I know I won't do that again.

"If I would've known better, I would've done better" -Oprah

Answer 3

Yes but what good does it do me i cant change the past so i dont think about it