it's first time to contact with a virgine, so she afraid like me!!
2007-01-21 00:21:05 · 7 answers · asked by KingR 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
First of all --Don't drink a lot at your wedding!
When you get to your honey moon destination RELAX
Be natural -- Remember you and your bride are best friends!
Treat your honeymoon like when you were dating. Enjoy and let nature take its course.
A little hint here--- there is no rule that you MUST preform on your wedding night. In reality a lot of newly weds are so tired from the days activities that they just go to sleep that first night.
If you are both virgins you will learn with each other.. don't be shy in asking your new bride if what you are doing pleases her and vice a versa.. Gentleness and understanding are important . Honesty is best and will help in the long run for a sexually compatiable marriage.
Don't know what to do ?? You and your fiance might be wise to get a book from your book store and read it together.
Best of luck in your marriage ..Be Happy
2007-01-21 02:11:53 · answer #1 · answered by That_ blue_ eyed_ Irish_ lass 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I do agree that you'll be exhausted after the wedding, so don't feel pressure to have sex. When it is that right time, lots of kissing, touching, and cuddling. And when it's time to, uh, you know, don't be forceful. It will hurt for her, trust me. Don't get down because it wasn't as mind-blowing as they make it out to be in the movies and romance novels. Be gentle, and once you get through that initial one, it will only get better.
Hope I wasn't too graphic.
2007-01-21 13:12:48 · answer #2 · answered by chefgrille 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is a natural feeling. Don't think about it or dwell on it. The chemistry will take over. Kissing sends the signal to the rest of your body and hers.
2007-01-21 09:44:37 · answer #3 · answered by Melissa M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be aware that if she's a virgin it's not going to be that comfortable for her. Not that you shouldn't enjoy it- you should try to, but this way there are no surprises.
2007-01-21 08:24:59 · answer #4 · answered by Sweet Tooth 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
everything will be just fine...please don't worry about it. Just be yourself...thats why she fell in love with you and do whatever comes natural. Congratulations and best of luck to you and your new wife.
2007-01-21 12:44:46 · answer #5 · answered by boss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
both have to enjoy it, no need to be afraid.
2007-01-21 08:24:58 · answer #6 · answered by Delphi p 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
.............just dont get too drunk , and dont be bashful .........
2007-01-21 09:45:30 · answer #7 · answered by klunk 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋