i really need help! he says he loves me so much.. but i never talk to him about this problem.. somebody please help.. please give me all the advise u can.. i really love him and i dont want to loose him.. he says the same.. boys mainly help 2.. thanx
2007-01-20 23:59:58 · 16 answers · asked by ♫♪Expecting #1!! ♫♪ :} ♥june 15, 2011♥ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He flirts! I would be 90% sure of this, but it doesn't mean he doesn't love you. I don't see anything wrong with flirting. Have you ever had anyone flirt with you besides him? Kinda makes you feel good, nice to be noticed. It's human nature to flirt. Jealousy will drive you mad, don't let the simple things ruin your relationship with him. Talk to him.
2007-01-21 00:07:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you want to loose him to insecurity you're going the right way about it. You can't make someone love you or be attracted to you. If he flirts with other girls (you haven't said whether or not you've actually seen him doing this) it's only an ego thing. Guys will flirt but it doesn't mean anything! I've 2 older brothers and I've talked to them about this before. For instance they'll compliment a girl and wonder why she gets hung up on them - they don't see it as leadiong on or anything. If you don't believe your boyfriend then you shouldn't be in a relaionship with him. How would you feel if he posted up a question like this about you? I'm sure it would hurt your feelings.
2007-01-21 00:07:55 · answer #2 · answered by lovely girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You girls are always so jealous it seems. Look, everybody does their fair share of flirting, its just natural. Most of the time its harmless. If its getting so bad it gets to the point that he just blatantly does it in front of you talk to him about. Just dont get overly emotional or he will get defensive. And dont bring it up in public. Guys hate getting chewed out in front of people and we will respond with some macho stfu style response. It could be he just doesnt even realize he's doing it. If he acknowledges the issue, you two could think of some sort of code word or action that makes him aware when he is doing it in public. Maybe you can train him to stop ;)
2007-01-21 00:09:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as its casual, what's to worry?
But then again, talk to him. Ask if its okay YOU flirt with other guys. If he's uncomfortable, then tell him it goes both ways. So he can't flirt with others. But if he's comfortable, just chill out because he obviously doesn't think its a big deal - so have fun flirting!
2007-01-21 00:04:23 · answer #4 · answered by callieRach 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off you have no clue what love is, secondly, what do you call flirting? Thirdly, if you have no communication you have nothing, and last but not least, if this is bothering you so much you will lose him anyway.
2007-01-21 00:05:00 · answer #5 · answered by blue2blnde 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be secure with yourself. Flirtation is a part of human behavior. I am sure you flirt also even if you don't realize it. If he goes beyond flirtation then be concerned. Try the flirtation yourself it is healthy.
2007-01-21 00:03:58 · answer #6 · answered by Wat Da Hell 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's flirting because maybe he knows that you don't want to lose him even if he's flirting with other girls.why don't you give him a dose of his own medicine and try flirting with other guys.let's see how he will react to that.an eye for an eye, a tooth for a tooth.
2007-01-21 00:04:39 · answer #7 · answered by Eds 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should tell him that it upsets you when he flirts with other girls and ask him to stop. If he doesn't want to stop try flirting with guys and see how he likes it
2007-01-21 00:03:01 · answer #8 · answered by Rocky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
heys ...please..all guys are natural flirters..just because he does it doesn't mean he don't likes you..its ok to flirt once in a wile..it proves you are normal
2007-01-21 00:09:10 · answer #9 · answered by Xiangniaini 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
O.K.,,,baby4life.....What is ur question??? Let him go somewhere w/out you. Then go thr. in diquise, & bust him !!! Why are you with somebody u don't trust ? &&& do u flirt, when he is not around??
2007-01-21 00:04:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋