I've heard of many people flirting. But what actually is flirting? I am really confused. Can anyone out there give me some examples please? Thanks.
2007-01-20 23:44:43 · 5 answers · asked by Daffodil 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Instructions from eHow.com:
* STEP 1: Start by working on your self-esteem. The underlying key to all flirtation is confidence, the magical charm that makes others want to get to know you.
* STEP 2: Smile, smile, smile.
* STEP 3: Think playful thoughts when gearing up to flirt. Flirts are fun and engaging, and they love to play with others.
* STEP 4: Compliment a stranger or acquaintance on his or her clothes, eyes, smile or sense of humor for starters.
* STEP 5: Keep your body language open and inviting: make eye contact, lightly touch the person's hand or arm when telling a story, toss your head back when you laugh.
* STEP 6: Initiate stimulating conversation. At a loss for words? Ask open-ended questions about the flirtee's job, hometown, family, recent movies seen, or thoughts about a painting on the wall.
* STEP 7: Open up about yourself, giving someone even more reason to like you. But don't go on and on - the goal is to engage and intrigue, not bore.
* STEP 8: Gauge the person's interest carefully. If you sense a flashing red light - or worse, smug ridicule - make your exit graciously, and immediately. You've got nicer people to meet.
* STEP 9: Progress in your flirtation, paying attention to cues from the object of your interest. If you perceive a sensual or sexual connection, make a bold move - ask for a date.
Good luck!
2007-01-20 23:49:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
flirting is a game of words that are played by two people who like each other or facial exceptions showing a big smile or winking and eye may be flirting,but some time flirting haves to be mutual or the other person will take it as sexual harassment . so know who likes it or not.
2007-01-21 07:55:32 · answer #2 · answered by sehoy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a really firty person even though I have a boyfriend its just who I am, but anyway, talk, always have a smile, toch their knee their arm, keep eye contact, gve compliments. All you have to do basically
2007-01-21 07:48:50 · answer #3 · answered by xhellsxlilxangelx 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
flirting is the prelude to f**k*ng, it's that simple
2007-01-21 07:47:36 · answer #4 · answered by ekim2211 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Grow up... Do "u" not z others
2007-01-21 07:52:55 · answer #5 · answered by Mina Saba 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋