SHOULD I FORGIVE HIM OR TEACH LESSON?
2007-01-20 23:38:10 · 27 answers · asked by rk 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
may be your love-starved kid and feeling attached.he has been using you.its shown in so many movies.
what will you teach.first teach yourselves why you got attracted to him in first place,because usually normal girls[confident girls] from good families emotionally well-nourished will never give chances to such men.you need help.you need love and affection from your family.and friends.share this with your close-friends and well-minded familymembers.you need to come out of this.
you deserve much better.life is beautiful.all girls are so wise.you made a mistake.learn from this.
regarding punishment,god will give give better punishment than you.
2007-01-20 23:52:59 · answer #1 · answered by gandhi g 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are way younger than this man, right? I can guess this is the case. You are 20 and he is 40. Right?
Well, he wanted a young body in bed. He got it. He promised you the sky so that you will stay around a little longer and he can have sex anytime or anyday. Now, the novelty is worn off.
In the meantime you fell in love. This can happen. Remember, he did not fall in love - he just pretended to love you. But understand what this relationship is all about. You both got something out of it. He did not ditch you, he has found another flower to move to. He is the butterfly.
You just move on with your life. Do nothing about this guy. But you have learned a lesson so that you won't repeat this mistake. (hope you did not get pregnant?)
2007-01-21 07:48:55 · answer #2 · answered by Nightrider 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
What is meant by taking care? He was having wife how you get satisfied with his answer like this.What and how he was going to care you? I think both of you are enjoying the situation and now when he fled away after using your perciest thing you are seeking advice. You must teach him a lesson so that the bastered may not use others.At least inform his wife about his character. The truth of such person must be brought before the family,society.
2007-01-21 11:32:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi!!Why teach him a lesson..Honestly you were wrong at the first place..You should have thought that if a married man you are going out with cannot stay loyal to his wife why should he be loyal to you..I don't mean to offend you & I apologize if you felt that way but honesty is the most important wheel in the car of relationship..He wasn't faithful with his relationship with his married life than how could you expect that he will stay honest with you. Even if you decide to punish him what will you do? Call his house and tell his wife about what her husband is doing..If she does listen to you and breaks off with him how long will they break up for..Every relationship has its ups & downs all we have to do is keep a steady head and think "Are we suppose to Be in this realtionship?? That what I feel...Thank you
2007-01-21 10:02:42 · answer #4 · answered by trvlfan_2000 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
first of all what the hell are you doing being with another women's man . you should be a shamed of yourself you need to really wake the hell up you are consider a side bit** Side Bit**es don't get taken care of he looks at you saying if she can be with me and I'm married i don't have to give her no damn respect . did you really think he wouldn't use you?? come on girl if he cheats on his wife and lies to her what makes you think he was going to be truthful to you . I'm sorry if i sound harsh but you need to wake up . no you should not forgive him or teach him a lesson and leave him alone HE IS MARRIED you need to cleanse yourself now and ask god to forgive you and don't mess with anybody Else's man married or not and learn how to love yourself more he will keep leaving an coming back until you put a stop to it he won't stop what man would if they can have 2 or more women at once . let him go because what comes around goes around and what you put out their that's the way you will be treated if you respect yourself you will get respect if you disrespect yourself then that's all you will get from people is disrespect
2007-01-21 07:56:17 · answer #5 · answered by ebeyes23 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I hope that its you, who have been taught a lesson for life: Never love a married man. Just put the thing out of your mind and make a fresh start. And this time with a bachelor.
2007-01-21 09:45:49 · answer #6 · answered by Modest 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well,don't forgive him .....just forget him and teaching hima lesson would be of no use. what is the point in doing all that???u ll make urself more frustrated and increase ur blood pressure,which is not good for ur health. so,jus relax,go out with ur friends and enjoy ur life. u have learnt a good lesson,haven't u?? next time don't fall for married men coz they already have a settled life,a wife back at home and kids...they use women outside their marriage for fun and amusement for a short while...eventually they return home. so,who's the loser???get wiser and don't repeat the same mistake.all the best for ur future.
2007-01-21 10:11:06 · answer #7 · answered by sasha 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Teach yourself a lesson. Never mess around with a married man.
2007-01-21 07:43:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
He ditched you. Forget him. Consider the way he treated you the next time an opportunity to be with a man who is taken comes up. You deserve a man who is 100% yours. Don't settle even if they promise you the world.
2007-01-21 07:42:06 · answer #9 · answered by kalea_kane 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you should leave him alone.what did you think he would do?not many men leave their wife and kids for the side kick.you are just as wrong as he is as you knew he was married.would you want your husband cheating on you and supporting another woman?move on and find someone single that is the best thing you can do.if he comes back to you or any other married man remember what you learned from this.
2007-01-21 07:51:10 · answer #10 · answered by angel_ns_texas 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋