Lets say u met a guy at a nightclub, danced a bit, talked a lot, got along really well. What would u do if he asked you to go back to his place?
2007-01-20 23:27:19 · 12 answers · asked by Deleted 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
depends if i wanted sex or not
but if i wanted a relationship with him, which i probably would from the sound of it, i wouldnt
2007-01-20 23:31:00 · answer #1 · answered by sparkles_x 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not a girl, but I'm bored, so I'll answer.
It's pretty unsafe to be alone with some guy you don't know anything about! I don't have a problem with one-night-stands, but they aren't that safe for women. There's some pretty dangerous psycho's out there that talk a good talk, walk a good walk, and are easy on the eyes.
You should have a couple of dates before you isolate yourself with this stranger who might be the love of your life or the end of your life as you know it. Do the words, abuse, STD, rape, torture, murder mean anything to you?
Once you're sure he's safe, grab some condoms and have some fun. You can wait a night or two; nothing wrong with a little anticipation.
2007-01-20 23:41:07 · answer #2 · answered by Hank Hill 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him no. One thing is that we all know that it is a rush to go and party and then go have a one night stand or maybe just a fling. One thing that must factor is your safety. We all think it is okay to be alone with a man that you just met recently. But you have to think; what is there record, what do they have under there belt, also know that any man can over power a women unless the women is built like China. Be careful about it and never go alone to somewhere you have never been before.
2007-01-20 23:44:35 · answer #3 · answered by fxysxysrkly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
never talk to him again because all he wants to do is hit it . most guys go to clubs for that reason even if the conversation might sound good to you when you met him. any respectable man don't really go to clubs to be in a relationship with a women . if he is a respectful man he wouldn't even ask you to go back to his place . please open your eyes a little more if you go to his house and don't give it up he will take it from you and you might end up in a body bag on the side of the road or go missing like Natalee Holloway... I'm just being real with you please get to no a man before you do anything with him
2007-01-20 23:43:37 · answer #4 · answered by ebeyes23 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sorry not a girl.
it depends, if u like him and u want him to take u serious then tell him u had a great time and would like to see him again.
if u jump into bed with him, the first thing that goes through a guys mind is (is she easy, does she do this all the time?) (sleazy and easy)don't get me wrong he will most likely go to bed with u, but will not look at u as a future.......anything.
2007-01-20 23:39:43 · answer #5 · answered by jesse james 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say "no, thank you" and then I'd go home. I'm old school though. I really like to know a man's last name before I hit the sack with him.
2007-01-20 23:31:25 · answer #6 · answered by Sheryl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No! you don't know him that well yet and it may not be safe & you don't know maybe he's a criminal. Good thing to do is just give your number & at least try to get to know him lil better first!
2007-01-20 23:39:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Heck no, My mama didnt raise no fool
2007-01-20 23:40:10 · answer #8 · answered by jdnsmama1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't say yes, and I would also doubt if he wanted me for anything else than sex.
2007-01-20 23:45:33 · answer #9 · answered by Kerosa S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I`d say no - only give him your number
2007-01-20 23:31:18 · answer #10 · answered by Nunu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋