Well, I met her over the internet. Through myspace actually lol. Yea I know, crazy. but yea, I think I talked to her before though so thats why I added her and me and her started talking alot on myspace. Yesterday, I decided to call her up.
She does seem intereted in me and she said she wanted to hang out with me and stuff. She thinks I am real nice and sweet. So obviously at this point I am suppose to ask her out or something.
So a few days later I asked her to meet me at this place called "starbucks" which seems to be a very common place for 1st dates these days.
She said she loves Starbucks and that she WOULD go there with me!
But im not sure if she thinks its a date or not, how do I let her know it is???
oh and on this little date if it even is, what should I do and NOT do? any help would be helpful! thank you, I do NOT wanna screw this up with this girl. I like her alot!
2007-01-20 22:56:29 · 7 answers · asked by DarkAaron 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just be yourself (unless you talk non-stop when nervous) and relax. It really doesn't matter if she thinks it is a date or not.
Whatever happens will show whether or not you two get along.
Quit stressing over the small stuff, just enjoy the time spent with her. If you really get along good, then later she'll probably call it your first date...
2007-01-20 22:58:53 · answer #1 · answered by Lt. Dan reborn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok thats so weird basicaly the exact same thing happened to me about a week ago...
id been talking to him over myspace, i said i thought he was really nice and cute, we went for a coffee...
well what happened is that i just went and saw how things went and just generally got to know him more. I didnt know for sure it was a date (but kinda guessed from what hed been saying, so if you want her to think its a date drop lots of hints)
it wasnt anything too intimate, but because we got along really while having coffee, we went for a film after and that kind of made things more "date" like
i think you should just take it easy cos you dont want to scare her off by being too full on especially if youve met her off myspace and just flirt with her and see how she reacts back and if things are going well, you could go out somewhere afterwards like see a movie or for a walk or something. well thats what we did and things are going great so far
best of luck :)
2007-01-21 07:14:28 · answer #2 · answered by sparkles_x 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wouldnt consider it a date.it is the first time you to have met in person.just go there with the intensions of meeteing her getting to know her a little better and just hanging out.if everything goes smooth then tell her you would love to do it again but maybe go to a movie or dinner.
2007-01-21 07:05:23 · answer #3 · answered by alexander 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well all i can say is be yourself no girl wants a phony tell the truth about yourself then you wont have to try to cover your lies if you guys go out again. if your going out for just coffee i don't think its a date .now if you take her to dinner its a date (good luck)
2007-01-21 07:05:08 · answer #4 · answered by beerman 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a coffee date, play it by ear, its your 1st meeting with her, just go with the flow.
Have fun!
2007-01-21 07:03:22 · answer #5 · answered by Gianna M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pay for the coffee
2007-01-21 07:07:54 · answer #6 · answered by MI5 WANNABE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? How old is she?
2007-01-21 07:05:46 · answer #7 · answered by headmaster382005 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋