I love my fiance, but we are going through a rough time. She doesn't seem to understand how much her emotions effect me. I can't really get through to her... All I know I that nothing seems right, even when the things outside of "us" are going as well as they could be, nothing really matters because we are not where we should be as a couple.... you know what I mean? I LOVE HER AND THIS IS DRIVING ME CRAZY. My heart actually hearts... I love her... Help a brotha' out....
2007-01-20 21:44:01 · 8 answers · asked by Rane 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I really believe that she loves me... but she may think I'm not genuine because she's been hurt in the past I don't wanna loose her
2007-01-20 22:00:28 · update #1
Man, I gotta say...I would seriously re-evaluate this relationship.
If she is having doubts about marriage, DO NOT go through with it.
There's no way to "win her love"....she is an independent person and even if you are able to convince her into something she doesn't feel 100% comfortable with, it's not going to work.
2007-01-20 21:49:33 · answer #1 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you asked her what is bothering her? Your question really sounded sincere and i hope she sees how her actions are hurting you.She must know your one of the good guy´s and they are few and far between.....Good luck
Write her a letter or even print your question out and leave it at the side of a single red rose for her to find.Sounds mushy but she needs to read and absorb what her actions are doing to you.If she doesn´t change then perhaps you need to accept the relationship is coming to an end and move on.
2007-01-21 05:51:40 · answer #2 · answered by MI5 WANNABE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All relationships goes through a rough time. Sit down (cuddle up) and talk with her. Try also to check out what you really feel. Be honest and do mention how much you love her.
2007-01-21 05:57:32 · answer #3 · answered by psalm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can assume from what you're saying that she doesn't show her love as she should much as have too.You need to her a very long conversation with her to try to figer out what's up with your relationship and ask her straight why she isn't as affectionate as she was with you.I believe that if her love has faded away you can't do anything to win her again.Good luck!I hope I helped.
2007-01-21 06:00:32 · answer #4 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was having major issues with my fiancee so we went to
counseling for couples. It does help because you both get to state your side with no interruptions. Then you must come to a solution
together. It's worth a try if nothing else has worked.
Good luck
2007-01-21 05:52:34 · answer #5 · answered by MedicineWoman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can't get her to communicate with you now, there is really no reason to marry her...A relationship without communication is NOTHING........
2007-01-21 05:49:13 · answer #6 · answered by fedupwu 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont get marryed until u figure it all out tell her what she is doing is upsetting u and that u will not marry her while she is being like this
2007-01-21 05:51:21 · answer #7 · answered by nicola f 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just talk to her
2007-01-21 05:53:45 · answer #8 · answered by Ashley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋