When you date them its not what you had hoped for and you break up with them?
2007-01-20 21:11:14 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yep thats a given.
2007-01-20 21:21:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you went a long time waiting for this person. You probably built them up in your mind to epic proportions and now that you've got them they are just your regular run of the mill guy. You were idolizing him for a long time and now you find out he's just a mere mortal.
2007-01-20 21:18:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes. The reality of that person doesn't match the fantasy so it's a let down. It could also be that you lost interest because the thrill or the chase or waiting for what might've been is over.
2007-01-20 21:18:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yup. Been there, done that. Its the whole infatuation stage. You think they are awsome and that they would be an awsome girlfriend. Then you realize that they are not what you thought or wanted them to be and you make peace with that. Its completly normal, so don't sweat it. You actually meet better people when your not looking, unless your like me and then you attract the phycos! Its actually kind of funny.
2007-01-20 21:17:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
What are you waiting for? Sounds like a lost cause.
Start over with someone who doesn't expect you to wait for nothing.
2007-01-20 21:16:50 · answer #5 · answered by domesticgoddess 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
of course! i was with my ex for five years. we were almost ready to get married and it just wasnt right. for one reason or another it just wasnt what we thought it would be and had to spilt up. we are still really good friends but we couldnt make each other happy in the relationship we wanted/had.
2007-01-20 21:16:30 · answer #6 · answered by gypsie 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
sometimes people aren't who we think they are sometimes our expectations are let down but remember both parties have to try to make it work it shouldn't just be left up to the guy to flatter you and make you feel good maybe you just weren't meant to be better to have a good friend then a relationship thats going no where
2007-01-20 21:18:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes , very normal , you just wanted to win , and you did .
It was not the guy you wanted .
Happened to me many times , I even couldn't kiss a girl after I followed her for about 2 months .
2007-01-20 21:18:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes, very normal.
2007-01-20 21:39:40 · answer #9 · answered by Dakota Lynn Takes Gun 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its ok,,,people break up their years of old marriage,,,be with some1 who is totallly ur type,,,,stop sacrificing ur happiness
2007-01-20 21:16:36 · answer #10 · answered by shazz 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋