how do i tell my boyfriend that i lost my virginity to his enemy and i was only 13 [Hint:im a girl].........please help cause i wont know how to tell him.i love him so much and dont ask how i lost it to his enemy[we started dating(his enemy) and i lost it to him and we dated for 7months and i was still friends with him and now were dating and i dont know how to break it to him]
just tell me the most loving caring respectful way i could
[Hint:im still 13]
2007-01-20 20:48:42 · 13 answers · asked by Alyssa 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2007-01-20 20:50:36 · answer #1 · answered by sphinx 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Why do you have to tell him at all? Most girls I know were virgins multiple times, lol! Seriously, it's none of his business. Would you want to know if he' d lost his to some girl you hated? Probably not. It's called "the past" for a reason. Leave it there. You really NEVER want to give details of your previous sexual experiences to the guy you are dating, even when he asks and swears he doesn't care and is just curious. Not to mention, he's probably going to call you a ho and spread it around school once you break up, so yet another reason it's none of his business. 13 year old guys can be real jerks like that (so can 18 year old ones for that matter!)
2007-01-20 20:54:49 · answer #2 · answered by Jadalina 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Hmm... My advice: Go back in time and shoot yourself in the head with a shotgun for loosing your virginity at 13. Or just do it to yourself now (NOT LITERALLY! SUCIDE = BAD). What the hell were you thinking having sex at 13?? That is WAY too young. I'm 17 and a virgin and more proud of it than I could be if I'd screwed 20 girls in a week. Tell him. No one likes a lier. But be warned, he may not want anything to do with damaged goods. I know I wouldn't. Especially at 13... jesus.
2007-01-20 21:01:24 · answer #3 · answered by Whateva 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Honey.. past is past...forget it ..,and I didn't understand why u want to tell Ur past to Ur present bf....and how can u make sure that u gonna stick to this guy forever.....4 safe side not to utter anything from ur past (relationship) especially sex related matters..,and don't ask him the same...if u ask ...there u give him a chance to inquire about u also...mind it.
2007-01-28 19:22:12 · answer #4 · answered by 2bros 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off, your thirteen you should not be having sex. where do you guys even do it? are u allowed to stay home all by yourself? so close your legs and go be a child, sex gets even more complicated when you grow up, why start now? and you dont love your boyfriend, your 13, you dont know what love is. im 21 and i still dont know what love is
2007-01-28 15:42:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
YOU DON'T TELL HIM,
you don't need the drama, and it is none of his business.
Well, unless you want him to dump you, and you are way to young to be having sex, have your momma get you some protection.
If she is a good mom, she will.
2007-01-28 20:17:39 · answer #6 · answered by Cally e 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
a relationship should be based on honesty and trust you should tell him but only if the subject comes up if he really loves you he will forgive you.
2007-01-20 21:05:00 · answer #7 · answered by You_Asked 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Chances are you guys aren/t going to be together forever,
I don't see a reason to stir up trouble. keep your mouth shut
2007-01-28 15:25:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
OMG..........you are a yr older than my daughter..........Hello where is your head? 13 yrs old is a little to young to be having sex. I bet if your mother knew she would ground your a**
2007-01-28 03:44:06 · answer #9 · answered by Brenda 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
just tell him. if he loves u, he would get mad at first but definitely come back to u.
2007-01-28 17:48:41 · answer #10 · answered by meme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yo are WAY to young to be dating let alone having sex!!!
2007-01-20 21:04:22 · answer #11 · answered by Bootsy 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋