he broke up with her in nov and he had some dvds at her house. she told him to come and get them and all he said was ok i will.so now here it is the end of jan and and she is doing her and now he want to call her phone at 12345 in the morning ?what the f ?this is crazy .He told her he wanted to be alone now he is and he want to ask her how you doing what ya been doing so what are you getting out of this ?i think he want her back but just dont want to say it ?
2007-01-20 20:42:10 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
the line he use is i was wondering if i can come get my dvd's but get this she have his
2007-01-20 20:47:29 · update #1
CAR KEY lol he never asked for it back i think he still love her
2007-01-20 20:48:40 · update #2
when he call her he only talk about two things dvd's and what have she been up to .she has been going out alot now but befor she never went out or did anything for her self and now she say it is all about her so now we are trying to see what is going on she still talk to his family and they still call her
2007-01-20 21:03:44 · update #3
ok now cheack this out i talked to my friend today and she said he has called her everyday for the last 3 days. He want to ask her how she is doing and he told her that she be out side alot now i told her she should had told him to mind his own
2007-01-23 18:04:02 · update #4
He might want her back or he just don't want her to be with anybody else. but i wouldn't take him back unless he was a real good man that just needed some time to grow up. But sometimes men want to have there cake and eat it too and they are confused on what they really want. I would really make sure he wants her because a phone call 12345 in the morning doesn't just say i want you back it might just be a booty call or he can be bored....but he has to do much more than call her to prove that he really wants her again. Also sometimes people don't know what they really got until it's gone... If she is doing her then i would tell her to keep on doing her.. because she can get with him again and then he will do the same thing he did to her before (which is hurt her and break it off with her) . If she really loves him and she really knows he loves her ( which is very important to know) then she should make him wait and let him prove to her he is worth being with her then she can take him back . We as women need to be more hard on these boys (that's how boys can become men)... because we keep giving them to much authority and letting them choose the relationship and letting them no we are weak and that's why we end up getting hurt so much by them.
2007-01-20 21:01:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I don't think so. By calling her at all hours of the night he is disrespecting her, especially if he doesn't even act like he's sorry that he may have woken her up. If he wanted her back, he would call her at a convenient time and actually want to talk to her about the relationship they had or about getting together for a night out. If he's calling her at 3 in the morning, he is lonely, possibly drunk, and thinking that he doesn't even have the obligation to be polite to her, so he can wake her up at all hours and she won't mind. He is looking for her to stroke his ego (and possibly something else). This is a booty call. She should tell him to stop calling after about 10, that she doesn't have time to talk but he can call her during the day to arrange to pick up his dvd's. If he wants her back, he'll make his move in a more appropriate manner, but only when she makes it clear that she isn't about to let him walk all over her. If she lets him get away with this, he will never have a reason to treat her right.
2007-01-20 20:56:51 · answer #2 · answered by roknrolr63 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, he does not want her back. He is just hurt to see can she live without him. Yes, she can, and that's making him feel not such a big man, so he wants to break her heart again. It's about him, not her, get it?
2007-01-20 20:47:04 · answer #3 · answered by Vesna G 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes not gettin any right now and knows she is easy and will give it up
2007-01-20 20:45:28 · answer #4 · answered by Czech_Mark 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, ask him , if he wants you back ;-)
You were talking about yourself, right ?
2007-01-20 20:46:21 · answer #5 · answered by willow, the yodakitty from hell 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋