should i let go of impossible relationships?

Question

i once have this relationship with a girl, everything goes well between us and we loved each other so much, we even thinked of engagement.. but the problem is, in Malaysia, we're like come from different worlds, our religion doesn't approve us to be married. I'm willing to sacrifice everything, family, friends and believes, but everyone around us don't approve it, including both families.. we both stayed quiet for awhile because of lots of problems.. now i dunno what to do.. i still love her so much

Answer 1

hey kevin, you are in between of your family and your girlfriend. As i can see, you are a very good man and i hope the one i loved would do the same to me (also a malaysian with a same problem). If you are willing to overcome the problem and be with your girlfriend, go for it. Work it out with your girlfriend and try to convince both families. Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things. Love never fails. If you have found your soul mate and the love that you both have is true, never let yourself regret because life is short.
Best wishes to you.

Answer 2

If you really really love the gal you should not even think about letting go.And if she rerally loves you as much as you do then you are winning the game dude.Just let your people know that you eally love her and that you can't live without her.Don't do it in the movie style.Do it seriously and convey the complete msg to them.If not today then tomorrow they will accept her.Stand strong.Best of luck.