i am going out with a girl that likes another guy but still likes me and she likes him alot but i never like him but me and her have ben going out for like 2 weeks now and he dosent like her like that and my head starts to hurt when i ask my self that question o.o soo yea i dont want to break up with her but i mean if its gonna be like this for the rest of the relation ship then idk what do to! i mean she is an awsome girl but she likes a guy that i hate and it makes me a little mad......tho i dont show it to her it still dose o.o she says she trys to get over him the best she can but she never dose
its kinda ben getting on my nervs the last few weeks ...i mean even befor we started dating i never liked him...what should i do
2007-01-20 20:26:05 · 6 answers · asked by bloodyscares188 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i aint in it for sex
2007-01-20 20:34:28 · update #1
GLD i have a question tho if she isent using me ( witch she wouldent i know it and NO i aint just saying that ..she is a good person she wouldent do that )
2007-01-20 20:36:22 · update #2
and i do that " Game " then she gets mad and stuff and dose it to me when she wasent really doing it
2007-01-20 20:38:28 · update #3
i ment - " if i do that " game " srry ..messed up
2007-01-20 20:39:32 · update #4
She is using you...do u want to be used?
2007-01-20 20:32:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself this question... Will you be content being with someone who makes you feel like "The Alternate Choice"? I think you should pass on her, eventually a girl will come around that will really like you and you won't have that nagging feeling you'll have with this woman you're talking about. Sounds like a relationship that's doomed to failure. With that said, it is possible she's just trying to make you jealous. Lotta women like playin that game. Tell her she's gotta make a choice or better yet, play the same game with another girl and see how she likes it.
2007-01-21 04:33:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just try regain your peace. Since it is you who are dating this particular girl, and not the guy she "likes", either ask her to make a choice and stick to it, or, no matter how much you dislike breaking up, I am afraid there is no other good choice. Otherwise you are going to be exhausted by permanent competition for this girls feelings (if she really has any, except for herself, one might also ask does she really likes that guy or maybe manipulates your feelings in a sneaky manner)
2007-01-21 04:35:23 · answer #3 · answered by Vesna G 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOu are chancing a broken heart, if she has been honest about still caring for him, of course you run the chance in love anyway, but try to be prepared.
2007-01-21 04:32:20 · answer #4 · answered by Brenda Soooooooooooooooooooooooo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should talk to your chick so that you can have time apart.This will give her time to evaluate her feelings for you and for this guy. You shpuld be prepared for anything though
2007-01-21 04:34:05 · answer #5 · answered by cynnie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is worth it if she gives you some.
2007-01-21 04:31:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋