But one day he told me that it's true that his flirting with other ladies but he said not to worry about that bcoz he said he still love me and never forget that i'm his girlfriend then all those ladies are just only for his fun. As of now our relationship is normal except that facts that he's flirting with the other ladies.
2007-01-20 20:13:26 · 13 answers · asked by mariagracejoseph 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well if he cared for you and your feelings he would stop..Now if he doesn't then you are going to have to decide for yourself if you can put up with it..If he keeps it up it will go farther..and he probably does anyway...he just wants you to be his prize at home...
2007-01-20 20:20:16 · answer #1 · answered by Brenda Soooooooooooooooooooooooo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This would be fine if it didn't bother you, but it does and you have every right to expect him to stop. I am sure that he would not be impressed if you were flirting with all the boys, but you don't out of respect for him right? If he loves you then he will respect your feelings and remember it is only jealousy if it is unfounded. If he is flirting in front of you, you have every reason to wonder what he is doing when you are not there.
2007-01-20 20:21:20 · answer #2 · answered by kllr.queen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just for fun? HA tell him he better shape up or your out of there, if the guy is willing to flirt with other girls whether the rest of the relationship is ok or not he does not sound like a trustworthy guy.
I would drop him in a flash if hes willing to make it seem to other females hes available when he is clearly not. I wouldn't trust him
2007-01-20 20:22:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's disrespecting you and you're letting him by believing that load of bull he's telling you. Some flirting is to be expected but he shouldn't have to flirt for his own personal fun. If you're flirting, you obviously find that person attractive and want them to notice you. He's got you, he doesn't need that outside attention. If he's that desperate to flirt, dump him and let him do it to his heart's content. One day, the flirting will lead to more if you just let his actions and lame excuses slide.
2007-01-20 20:19:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
from what i know it sound not to much like love to me if your jealous and he cant just bee happy and flirty with you . you should try to flirt with him more so that he wont feel the need to flirt with other girls. and if he admits to his flirting with other girls ,only one girl that he flirts with could change every thing if she mixes his flirting to feelings for her, cuz flirting leads to cheating. but i hope in your case that it really doesn't . i could see y your jealous though, you kinda have a reason to i kinda would too. well i hope that he trys and stop flirting . the more attention he pays on you the more he will forget about all them other girls he flirts with .
2007-01-20 20:21:33 · answer #5 · answered by tina2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u no wat sista? same thing here. mine went to cabo for a WEEK, told me evrything that happened. here's the fun part. it's the least important, smallest, part of the END of the story.
he woke up (after blacking out) in a different hotel room w/ 10 other chicas, then when he went outside, evryone's all, ur a man 4 what u did in there. all at the same time, 2. or w/e. evryone was buying him drinks and crap. needless 2 say we were fine, but i dumped his lying, cheating, flirting, sorry @$$!
2007-01-20 20:19:08 · answer #6 · answered by lexidoodles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him this, what if you do the flirting. would that be ok with him? what is he trying to prove by flirting with "the other ladies?" tell him if he wants to flirt then he can do all the fliting he wants but not with you as his girlfriend.draw the line.flirt or leave.
2007-01-20 20:19:33 · answer #7 · answered by Eds 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The problem with him flirting so much is that it could imply that he's looking around for something better or atleast new.
But it's possible he just flirts to boost his ego.
2007-01-20 20:18:54 · answer #8 · answered by Havana Brown 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he cares about you, he will respect your jealousy and not do anything to make u jealous. He should shy away from them to make you feel more secure and loved. :)
2007-01-20 20:16:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
when I had this problem the best way to deal with it was to encourage him to have a three some you him and another girl it will end any jealosuy in you
2007-01-20 20:19:06 · answer #10 · answered by jambutty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋