This issue seems to come up frequently on Yahoo Answers so I thought a direct question might be interesting.
Personally, I don't think there is any specific reason to wait for marriage for sex. However, I do believe sex is something best saved for someone special. Experience has shown me that pleasure is enhance when you have a real bond with the person you are having sex with. Not to mention the other potential issues - such as pregnancy - that are best dealt with in a loving relationship.
Back to the issue of waiting for marriage to have sex, I don't think there is anything wrong with that if it's what you believe in. However, I don't think anyone should force themselves to do (or not do) something because it's what others expect of them. I also think it's a joke when people say they are waiting for marriage for sex but will engage in oral sex or anal sex or even heavy petting and touching.
2007-01-20 20:12:18 · 13 answers · asked by Justin H 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I believe when you enter into marriage, the person you are marrying should be the right person for you in all aspects including sex, imagine a woman getting married to find her husband only wants oral sex with her or that he only wants sex once a month, only by having prenuptial sex are you going to find out these things and maybe save yourself from a bad marriage. Years ago women would accept a mans faults in marriage but now and quite rightly so, they wont.
2007-01-20 20:23:33 · answer #1 · answered by laughinggiraffe2003 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why ask why? human beings will do the main craziest issues which isn't clever to the customary man or woman. there's no such element as pre-marital intercourse. There are on no account any excuses to desert a baby for regardless of reason. you're actually remarkable concerning the activity purely being the mattress because of the fact there's no actual dedication right here. actual adult males make actual Commitments.
2016-11-25 23:37:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wished i had,. i think its great.
if u can get any, then get some.
dont be like me. im a loser virgin at 28 and now i have to hate myself for it.
if u have the chance, bang the girl man.
dont end up regretting like me at this age, aint young no more.
and that whole someone special thing? oh puh-lease. u think women care about that?
all they care about is the size of your schlong and if it';; rock their world. then the more the get it, then it becomes something special.
point is, sex is great, i didnt and havent got none, so im a loser now, so if u can get some, do it!
not to mention the fact that when u have to tell other guys about your score, at least u wont have to lie.
2007-01-20 20:17:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think sex really should only be a thing between husband and wife. But these days people are getting away from that. Going as far as having threesomes and other discusting acts. People are just not faithful like they used to be. And its what they choose.
2007-01-20 20:35:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is best to wait til marriage, what if a person slept with everyone he or she cared about through their life...there would be a pretty high score right? But I agree with you sex is sex no matter what form..
2007-01-20 20:17:39 · answer #5 · answered by Brenda Soooooooooooooooooooooooo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have b.f for one year, and we agree never have sex before marriage, but believe me the oral sex it's not the same, because i am virgin i can't do sex before marriage... this is what i believe..
i can't say to my b.f no no no to everything we have freedom but of course limited... we hug and kiss each other, but in limit, and he knows that i can't do more than that, and i cry if he want more.. so if he loves me he can wait until the married if not he is playing with my feelings like most of the guys..
and i think if the sex become the most important in the relationship so the broke is soon.. believe me it's a important issues thanks to discuss it.
2007-01-20 20:23:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
i think it's bad for your life..most of the time...
i think, most of the time...it's the cause of people looking for their mother, father, sisters, brothers etc.ect. here in yahoo answers...
what if one person in that realtionship dumps the other one? let say the guy dumps the girl...and she's pregnant because of him...then the child wouldn't know who the real father is? then he'll start searching for him in Yahoo answers!!!
one more thing...i'm really confused...i find that many people simply have pre-marital sex...and yet they bother about marrying or having a life partner that is still a virgin...
anyway, i'm 100% against pre-marital sex...it's just dumb
2007-01-20 20:23:47 · answer #7 · answered by Big Bike Biker 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i agree i waited and i am so glad i did it makes you even closer to the one you are in the relationship with they know you haven't been around the block and brought the block back with you if you know what i mean so yea sex is sex oral anal or petting touching either you are saving or not period so i do agree and disagree waiting it so much better.....ps women do care trust me because whoever you sleep with they are sleeping with them to and that is NASTY
2007-01-20 20:19:16 · answer #8 · answered by bambi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i waited on marriage, i would still be a virgin and im 24! but i am with that specail someone who if he asked me to marry him, i would say yes! you have to follow your heart, and by the way pre-marital sex is called fornication.
2007-01-20 20:19:57 · answer #9 · answered by dominique shari 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that pre marital sex is wrong but that is because of my religion. also it could lead to getting pregnant and i would want my child to know and have both parents in their life.
2007-01-20 20:44:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋