I am only 14, but when I see an attractive girl, below 35 who is using lotion on their body, I get turned on badly, and I for some reason want them to use it on me, and I always try and find a way.
Do most guys get turned on by this?
And is it normal for gfs and bfs at older age, do girls put it on guys?
and also if any of you girls answer, do you put it on guys, and why?
2007-01-20 19:39:56 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Other - Health
Your question is sweet. People all have different things they find attractive or stimulating. I find many things about a man sexy,,, a clean shaven face, a full beard, a bald head, hairy arms, strong arms, a mans voice, the way he behaves/speaks .. all things that are manly. So I find all things male to be attractive as do most women. It is our differences that become attractive... and some even cherished. Not only physical things but also emotional things. You may find seeing a woman do female things attractive... putting on lotion, the scent of her perfume as she walks by, long swaying hair, cute shoes, breasts- be they small or bouncy large... her smooth legs... all of these are girl things. For a female to place lotion on a man is also stimulating for both her and the man... to feel her touch and the softness against your skin. The mind is quite powerful and it can weave wonderful things into our head or things that are not good for our head. We do have the ability to control what we allow into our psyche that will affect our lives. There are many men who love to have a woman put lotion on them and give them a wonderful relaxing back rub etc... this is certainly ok. You at 14, are beginning to develop your awareness of women and your own sexuality. This is ok. The key to this is to keep a healthy strong attitude that you develop a good life for yourself and your future mate. Form your sexuality in a healthy way. This is something that can become a wonderful part of life or a disruptive part of life. At 14, I say to you enjoy the differences between men and women...this is natural... but I also say hold out for the woman who will be most wonderful for you. Don't fill your database with things that will harm you. Stay on target right now with school as the decisions you are making in these next few years are ones that will guide the direction of your entire life. Be smart in your own development and take the time to permit yourself to become a man. PS I suggest you get paperback book by Dr. Laura Slesinger on the 'Ten Stupid Things Men Do To Mess up There Lives'- you are at the right age for this easy but exceptional read. She also wrote one for women and they have both been on the NY Times Newspaper Best Sellers list. This would be worth your while and a smart thing for a 14 year old to do. .
2007-01-20 20:06:06 · answer #1 · answered by lindasue m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Rubbing yourself with any type of lotion/oil can be sexual. This is probably why you get turned on by it. Don't worry, it's completely normal, and women rubbing their hands all over their body no matter what they are doing, putting lotion on or not, looks very sensual! TOTALLY NORMAL =)
2007-01-20 19:46:00 · answer #2 · answered by Lesley C 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's a mild fetish. Most people have fetishes of some form or another. Fetishes are created at a young age when an experience causes you to associate a particular action, item of clothing or whatever with sexuality. You don't remember this, but it sticks in the brain and reinforces itself continually, until it manifests as a sexual fetish when your mind becomes sexually active. Don't worry about it. There's nothing wrong and/or unnatural about it. I've not heard of this particular fetish, but then, fetishes aren't things people usually discuss openly. They are ashamed of them when they shouldn't be.
2007-01-20 19:46:28 · answer #3 · answered by dead_elves 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think you are going through your "phase" as a male. I don't think gf and bf uses lotion on each other? Girls use lotion for attractiveness.
2007-01-20 19:45:41 · answer #4 · answered by Ryan 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I have never put lotion on any of my boy friends but...maybe i will.
I've never heard of this but maybe other guys do get turned on by this. It's normal for older couples to put massaging oils on each other.
2007-01-20 19:44:10 · answer #5 · answered by seksy4life 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
J, you probably get turned on by girls with lotion because you're 14!! i could barely stand up straight from 10-16 years of age, so you're doin' pretty good! keep it up! oops!!
2007-01-20 19:48:26 · answer #6 · answered by J-Dizzle 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Its normal, you are just like most other guys. Regarding the rest of your questions, I guess you'll have to answer them yourself when you get a little older.
2016-03-29 07:13:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Male sexual attraction is linked mostly to physical perception, while females have more links toward emotional and security. Your hormones are merely spiking on this one aspect- Cold Shower Time for you!
2007-01-20 19:43:33 · answer #8 · answered by bscoms 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's very normal. Different things turn on different people. If my guy likes it, I just might do it for him. Why not?
2007-01-20 19:47:22 · answer #9 · answered by HopeGrace 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋