My name is Paige and I saw my cousin Riaz nude at a pool party thrown by my friend. It was a clothing optional pool party. We both are 21 but maybe I am not acting as an adult here because all that keeps running through my mind is when Riaz was walking around with about a 4 inch erection. Will our relationship ever be the same?
2007-01-20 17:57:39 · 41 answers · asked by egaider 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
I would tease him about it. If you joke about it, it may leave your mind. It is definitely (4") not a big deal.
2007-01-20 18:00:29 · answer #1 · answered by TE 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
On this plus side, this could make for a funny story at family gatherings (especially the 4 inch part)
Did he seem embarrassed by the incident? If not, then the future of your relationship is all dependent on how you take it.
If he does, then it's best to talk to him. It depends on what kind of relationship you have. We don't know, so it's up to you.
Talk to him and just wing it.
Whatever you do, try not to humiliate him and it shouldn't be that bad (at least you didn't become visibly arouse from the sight)
2007-01-20 18:02:49 · answer #2 · answered by sir_camm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's pretty normal for some guys to have erections a lot of the time, not that all guys do. Erections don't actually mean anything is my point. But a clothes optional pool party? WTF? I am a kind of Bohemian 26 yr old living 10 min from NY and I don't think that's cool. I guess just forget it, I mean, under our clothes we are all naked.
2007-01-20 18:28:18 · answer #3 · answered by Cuit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Understand his sorrrow with only a 4 inch erection at 21
2007-01-20 18:03:41 · answer #4 · answered by Chris B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your relationship will be the same if you do these two things. one: try to keep busy and dont overthink the situation. i dont think riaz cared much or he wouldnt have been naked. if it isnt a big deal to him then it shouldnt be a big deal to you. second: if you cannot stop thinking about it then confront him and ask him if he cares or has a problem with you seeing him.
2007-01-20 18:01:58 · answer #5 · answered by joey p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he only had a 4 inch erection, after you stop laughing, get over it. It's not life and death. There are so many more important things in life to worry about.
2016-05-24 04:00:10 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL girl its cool. I saw my uncle nude one time and I saw my dads but cheek. I was horrified at first but then I was like "that was actually pretty hilarious". If you think about it, I bet it was funny. i mean you saw your cousin who you grew up with and saw as a little boy in the fricken NUDE! And he was hard....that some funny stuff. I would be cracking up at this point. Laugh about it, because I'm sure he will.
2007-01-20 18:02:19 · answer #7 · answered by noella. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget it. If the erection was directed at you that's another matter. But you can pretend it never happened and eventually things will get back to normal. If YOU let them. Don't brood on it. It's not important!
2007-01-20 18:01:32 · answer #8 · answered by survivor 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Moral of the story: no clothing-optional pool parties.
2007-01-20 18:40:25 · answer #9 · answered by drshorty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him - tell him you expected more of him with a twinkle in your eye. I am quite sure he gave you more than a passing glance too. Nudism should be natural. Who knows if you both enjoyed each other's naked non-sexual company, you could join a nudist club.
2007-01-20 18:02:50 · answer #10 · answered by Flab 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, don't mention names on the web. :)
Second, just laugh about it. Everyone who attended the party knew what was going to happen. You were not the only one there, so joke about it, get it out of your system and move on.
2007-01-20 18:01:33 · answer #11 · answered by Life coach 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋