My girlfriend and I were in an amorous mood last night,We were canoodling and carrying on as lovers do, Then she just turned it off cold.She turned off,But I was still on if you know what I mean.Is this a power play or just a womens perogative.We are both in our thirties and have been together for eighteen months last week.One confused male!
2007-01-20 17:54:56 · 15 answers · asked by Eat My Shorts 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes my hubby has
2007-01-20 17:58:05 · answer #1 · answered by harmonieclark 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I do not think that she is boning someone else. **** happens and sometimes girls just lose it just the same way guys do. My man has lost the mood on more than one occassion. I do not think he is cheating on me.
Who knows, for myself I know that at times, the evils of my childhood creep up on me when we are "together". I was abused as a child and that is embedded in. Occassionally there are flashbacks and I have no choice for my own self I must stop what is happening.
Men will never know what is going on in the woman's head, just like we will never know what goes on in the man's head. Sometimes we just have to be more understanding and less accusing. If it was something that happened on a regular basis, just ask her what happened...maybe not 2 seconds later.
Ask her if you were doing soemthing wrong or if there is something that you could do different.
Hope this helps.
2007-01-20 18:05:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do not push your woman into sex. All you need to do is ask her once. If she says no, take it like a man. Don't keep bugging her or it will turn her off even more. When the time is right, she'll be ready.
2007-01-20 18:01:02 · answer #3 · answered by Desert Rose 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People are different. She may just not have wanted to. My wife isn't always into it, even after "carrying on" as you say. Some good advice given to me about this very issue is that getting started is usually a sort of non verbal question and answer. You ask if she wants to, and usually she somehow says yes or no. Its ok if she doesn't want to. Now, if she refuses to for weeks on end it is ok to ask if everything is ok.
2007-01-20 18:00:38 · answer #4 · answered by GrainOfSalt 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What the heck did you do touch her in the wrong g way! maybe it's the words that came out of your mouth... that or she just lost the desire to do any thing cuz her tummy felt weird, that's hiow i felt when I was pregnat the first few moths...Shut up leave me a lone and if the eye rolled it was you.
2007-01-20 18:00:57 · answer #5 · answered by memjabeana 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2016-11-25 23:30:03 · answer #6 · answered by shuler 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your not alone i have seen wives do the same thing .. it could be a power trip.. she could be a domme or I have seen women just loose interest in the whole thing like that I don't think that any male really knows the answer
2007-01-20 18:03:19 · answer #7 · answered by godoguy2001 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not good at all. Time to get a second sex partner.
2007-01-20 18:00:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your girl don't want your lame sex anymore. HA HA.
Take a cold shower and/or masturbate - give her a pearl necklace while shes asleep.
2007-01-20 18:00:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I definately dont agree with Rookie! My hubby does it all the time. Have you asked her if something is troubling her, ie is she worried about anything? Women are different from man and maybe she just simply wasnt in the mood.
2007-01-20 18:02:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
hell no sometime she makes me work for it cuz i like it when she 's playing hard to get but never beg and never will beeg for sex then again i know how to get to my girl soft spot so she want it
2007-01-20 17:59:42 · answer #11 · answered by dpst10 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋