he is hot ,tall and blond ,basketball player ,green eyes
2007-01-20 17:54:26 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
toss a coin
2007-01-20 17:57:02 · answer #1 · answered by Bonduesa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont destroy your friendship over it. theres a million tall, hot, blond, basketball players with green eyes out there, but only few good friends.
2007-01-21 01:57:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay friends with your girl friend and wait it out. If she purses him let her, be supportive because if the guy likes either one of you, he will approach that one that he once to get to know more, Let him decide! I believe a solid friendship is more important than some guy you like. Your Friend will need your support if she dates him and finds out that she has no chemistry with him or He tells her that he really likes you more. Above all else you must not let any guy come between you and your friend! If sometime the two of you do go out on a date with him or any other guy for that matter. Try following my 5 biblical principles for a good relationship with a solid foundation. Ask Yourself does he?:
1. Does he love you for who you are (inside first than out)? The Bible says: *“Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil, but rejoices with the truth.” 1 Corinthians 13:4-6
2. Does he honor you? Will he do things just to make you happy? Will he try some of the things you are interested in or maybe shares some of the same interests and hobbies? The Bible says:
* “Be devoted to one another in brotherly love. Honor one another above yourselves.” Romans 12:10
3. Cherishes your body, mind and soul? Doesn't go to far on these things until your ready? The Bible says: * “Your beauty should not come from outward adornment, such as braided hair and the wearing of gold jewelry and fine clothes. Instead, it should be that of your inner self, the unfading beauty of a gentle and quiet Spirit, which is of great worth in God’s sight.” 1 Peter 3:3-4
4. You trust him to the fullest? He is your best friend and you are his? The Bible Says: * “ Love always protects, always trusts, always hopes always perseveres.” 1 Corinthians 13:7
5. You communicate well? He understands you like he could be your twin? The Bible says: * “ Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful, that it may benefit those who listen.” Ephesians 4:29
To Sum it up: Stick to 1. Love 2. Honor 3. Cherish 4. Trust 5. Communication and I promise if your relationship is based on these things you will know what its like to find true love! And Yes! I have used my principles myself and I am convinced I have found my soul mate! But to find her I also used these same principles to weed out my soul mate from the relationships that just didn't work. In addition, letting God and Jesus Christ lead your heart, mind, body and soul also aid in the weeding process.God Bless!
2007-01-21 02:25:22 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would talk to her about it. It isn't worth losing a friendship over. I have seen more friends stop being friends over this, and in the end the relationship they took on ends and they are alone.
2007-01-21 01:58:47 · answer #4 · answered by kalea_kane 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I also had the same problem. My friend knew him before me. And I left him cuz she knw him before and I did't want to have a silly fight for him cuz i wanted to continue our friendship. There are tons of boys who are hot and easy to find but finding loyal friends are really hard.
2007-01-21 02:22:59 · answer #5 · answered by Fleur 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this is a real friend of yours, the guy shouldn't jeopardize the friendship. Maybe both of you should decide to leave him alone in order to preserve the friendship.
2007-01-21 01:59:23 · answer #6 · answered by blakladee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Claim him fast.
In the long run, you'll totally be able to see that this guy is 10 times more important than your petty friendship.
2007-01-21 01:57:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
toss a coin, the winner asks him out the "loser" can go find another hot guy. Trust me...they're everywhere.
2007-01-21 01:58:04 · answer #8 · answered by ♥♥ Nikki ♥♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let the best girl win, u gotta go for him, or else your friend will go for him. think of it this way if you will she prob will be mad at you, and if she win you will be mad at her. or you can promisse not to be mad at each other whoever wins. now u gotta say ur gonna play fair and you should but dang girl play hard ball
2007-01-21 01:58:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
usually girlfriends know who saw em first
only selfish / self centered girls cross this rule
and are not true friends
2007-01-21 01:59:04 · answer #10 · answered by tutorisland 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋