do guys ever go for innocent girls (by innocent i mean virgin, doesn't go clubbing, doesn't drink, hasn't had many boyfriends follows moral code haha) or do guys prefer girls that have had experience and stuff like that. it seems really difficult to get guys interested if you have done nothing wild or something
2007-01-20 17:49:33 · 15 answers · asked by Luciya 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
depends on the type of guy you're looking for. i prefer a girl with a personality who's fun and interesting to be around - whether she's "experienced" or not is not an issue for me.
2007-01-20 17:57:07 · answer #1 · answered by warr31 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that all guys are like that. Granted a lot are, but if you can find a guy that is attracted to you for who you are rather than what you look like, I would say to give him a chance. As a guy, I don't think that girls should have to wear revealing clothing in order to impress guys. Personally, I would rather go out with someone with an interesting personality rather than someone that can show off. There are definitely guys that appreciate modesty, although I have a feeling that they are in short supply. As guys grow more mature, we start to realize that looks alone aren't satisfying enough to have a serious relationship, not that looks are completely overlooked, but of course that's the same for most (if not all) people. So I guess what I'm trying to say is that modesty isn't at all undesirable and can even add a sense to mystery to a girl's character. Guys have different preferences, and I don't really think that guys that are only into looks are worth the trouble. I hope this helped out a bit. Best of luck.
2016-05-24 03:59:36 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have an innocent girl and believe me i love her. she is the best. and that is because i can trust her. i know she isnt a bad person and that she wont do anything. the innocence helps you have trust and that is good. some guys might try to take this away but please be careful. in Puerto Rico there are many preagnancies for some errors. so be careful. my girl doesnt club, she is a virgin, follows the moral code and we both know the consequences of our actions. we have been one year together and we are about an hour apart from each other and her innocence and goodness have made the wait much easier. a guy that wants a drinking, clubbing, none virgin girlfriend just wants to take advantage of you so dont go for that. be a good girl and youll become a wonderful woman. so hope you make a good decision and i could have been of some good help and advice :)
2007-01-20 17:55:33 · answer #3 · answered by MAX 3 · 16⤊ 0⤋
A big part of this question would depend on age range. That aside, I am 21, and personally those are the girls I am most attracted to! Basically that is because my values agree with a girl like that, and I too are a virgin still.
But to give some general insight, I must say there are a good amount of guys that don't like girls like that because they want to be able to get physical with her, and want her to know what she's doing. Another group of guys wants loves to find girls like that, to corrupt them themselves. And then you are left with the minority, with guys like me. Of course, keep this in context of me being 21 and in college (but this applies to some friends that are not in college currently as well).
I'll tell you that I'm a little concerned/afraid even, that girls my age and older would be weary or me because I am quite unexperienced myself, and especially because I am a male. By this age most girls seem to want experienced guys... Eh it's confusing huh!
2007-01-20 17:59:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the guy, some guys don't mind, whereas others like girls that are "innocent". It also depends what they want from you, if they just want sex, chances are, they WON'T want you to be a virgin, so then they don't feel tied down because you gave them your virginity. But if they are looking for a long-term, loving, committed (blah blah blah...) relationship, then they would want you to be innocent and definitely a virgin.
2007-01-20 17:52:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
Good question...would like to see answers. I am a good girl, don't drink/smoke, good morals, never had a bf, etc...
I think it just depends on the guy
2007-01-20 17:56:00 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 6⤊ 0⤋
well I think innocent girls or much better then party girls because they save themselves for someone special. any thats y I rather be with a innocent one because I always want to be with someone special. good luck
2007-01-20 18:01:25 · answer #7 · answered by Joho 7 · 11⤊ 0⤋
the innocent girls are the ones guys marry, if they are smart.
2007-01-20 17:53:57 · answer #8 · answered by jesse james 5 · 11⤊ 0⤋
i think girls are more attractive when there not party girls. But i think alot of guys do like the more wild type girls who are crazy. But everyones is different .. there are alot of guys who are like u and not into the drinkin and partying..... please please pick me as best answer :)
2007-01-20 17:54:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
guys usually try and corrupt girls like us
2007-01-20 17:52:09 · answer #10 · answered by Waythere 3 · 9⤊ 0⤋