I left a note for him in his backpack, it said "hey beau u seem like a cool guy and i was wondering if u wanted to hang out sometime? (#)...we arn't exactly friends yet, but we have talked before/ complimented, whatever
He texted me with an answer (pansy!) saying "You seem like an awesome girl too, but i practically have a gf, but yeah call me sometime"
The next day i tried to talk to him, but he was either really shy, or hostile! lol idk which one.
I sort of was sad, so i didnt really talk to him or look at him, but the one time i did, he was lookin at me, only it wasnt an "I like you" look, it looked very concerned.
We ignore eachother in the halls, so i took to the hint to back off..i deleted his messages, number, i dont look for him anymore, and i am done watching his hockey games or talking about him.
I guess im an attractive girl, but did i creep him out before? Are these good steps to getting over it?
2007-01-20 17:34:16 · 4 answers · asked by kat 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
those are good steps to get over him, but do you really WANT to? maybe you should talk to him or leave him a note again, but let him know that you don't really know what you did wrong and that he doesn't need to be acting like a creep.
don't worry about it too much. cuz if ur not together than one day u'll wake up next to someone u love and he's gonna be thinking bout how he could have been that someone
2007-01-20 17:38:58 · answer #1 · answered by spikey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't need to just ignore him to get over it. Realize it isn't really you, he has a relationship, and at least he was man enough to admit it. But his texting you doesn't exactly make him a pansy...afterall you only slipped a note in his backpack...you didn't really put yourself out there either. The best way to get over someone is just get yourself busy in other activities and friendships. In time you will find yourself interested in someone else and this issue will be way beyond you.
2007-01-21 01:39:44 · answer #2 · answered by kalea_kane 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's probably just flattered that you are into him.
I think forgetting about him is a good step.
2007-01-21 01:37:43 · answer #3 · answered by Waythere 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep goin ur fine, he doesnt deserve u ne way n he will realize it too, but ten it may be too late
2007-01-21 01:37:19 · answer #4 · answered by harmonieclark 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋