A girl that I like is a waitress at the restaurant that my brother and brother-in-law took me to tonight; my brother-in-law decided to be a little forward and had us put in her section. After she had taken our order I asked them what they thought: my in-law noted that she wore a ring with a heart on her finger with the heart facing in; this he stated meant she already had a boyfriend. My brother said that she had little red spots, or marks on the back of her arms; this means that she is a smoker. That and lately she has been rather brief and all business towards me, as she was tonight (I understand that she IS working and has to hurry, but normally since we are acquaintances she relaxes a bit). Does anyone think that what my family said has any truth there, or are they just busting me? I know that the surest and quickest way to find out is to ask her (as my brother has stated this numerous times) but I’m rather shy by nature and not as confident as my brother-in-law.
2007-01-20 17:30:26 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The possibility that it is true is very high, but hey there is a slight chance I wear a ring that says "true love waits" and some people might interpret that as she has a boyfriend and others don't.....since ur shy why don't u get you bother-in-law to ask her..since he's so confident...Or you could be brave and say that's a really nice ring ur wearing who gave it to u? and u can figure out that way good luck ;D
2007-01-20 17:38:44 · answer #1 · answered by soulfullilangel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she so special, just ask her out. Try this way. send an anonymous message (if possible with flowers) to her asking her out. Tell you fell about her and what kind of person you are.Also inform her how to identify urself eg: with your shirt colour or your appearance. If she is interested, she'll come. But the trick is, wear something else so that you could not be identified. If she dresses up elegantly, you'll know she wants you!!!!!!!!
2007-01-21 01:43:49 · answer #2 · answered by Eugene Young 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What the heck?!?! Ask the girl tiny little harmless questions yourself then you'll know if she opens up to you then she likes you be brave and relax. Girls like it if you notice the pretty thing they have on. I smoke and don't have the little red spots!!!
2007-01-21 01:36:02 · answer #3 · answered by memjabeana 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
heart facing in etc? what the hell!!!
I think your family has issues.. i have heart rings... cos hearts are pretty.. and i face them whatever way i want
Marks on her ams? jesus!! Have some vodka... go in... and ask her.. Even if she says no to you.. all girls love being told a guy is interested... its a compliment!
JUST DO IT !!!
2007-01-21 01:42:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anna L 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you cant ask her yourself
ask your brother to ask for you
he can tell her that you find her very attractive
and he wants to no if you have a boyfriend
but you should do this yourself
2007-01-21 01:55:11 · answer #5 · answered by jeff b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who cares what they say just ignore them and ask her yourself. Not that hard unless your a useless....
2007-01-21 01:35:13 · answer #6 · answered by KT 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋