2007-01-20 16:48:42 · 16 answers · asked by shanhelp 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't be jealous of couples. Sometimes couples wish they were single and lonely!!
2007-01-20 16:55:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
seem at people who're in arranged marriages. a lot of them are depressing and a lot of them wound up loving their spouses. i do no longer think of it thoroughly concerns which you weren't head over heels in love mutually with your husband, yet you're subject is which you maintain protecting onto the previous, understanding that your previous relationships weren't solid for you besides. If i'm following your tale wisely, you're exceedingly much 30 and nevertheless whining approximately your extreme college sweetheart. permit it circulate. you're no longer giving your self a raffle to totally embody your existence because it extremely is now. you won't be able to be at peace mutually with your decision while you're thinking a pair of guy you dated as an adolescent who dealt with you like crap. possibly you like some scientific care to help you mutually with your subjects. Lay those old subjects to relax so which you would be able to circulate forward. you will be able to locate which you somewhat desire to truly provide this marriage your all, or finally come to a decision that it extremely is not any longer what you desire. in case you haven't any longer have been given young toddlers yet, then do no longer till you have labored on your issues.
2016-12-16 09:37:08 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats sounds like me but Ive found a way to be happy without worrying about what couples are doing. I hang out with my friends everytime I get and you never know, one day your out and you met someone you really like. Ive been alone for 5 years now and I congratulate people who are in relationships though nobody is stopping you from finding your own romance. You do forget how to act when youve been out of the "game" for so long but youve got to look for that person first not sit around waiting for her to come to you.
2007-01-20 17:07:23 · answer #3 · answered by bluetinkerbell 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know what you mean....i cant watch the mushy boy girl movies either....they make me sooo sad. Anyway, try not to be jealous of what others have...God tells us not to do that. You should pray that God puts the right person in your life. It will happen in time. Dont get in too much of a hurry. You do have to get out there and meet people though.
2007-01-20 16:55:13 · answer #4 · answered by justme 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Just know that there are advantages of being single, too. For example, you won't have the possibility of an emotional break-up. But you'll know if the right person comes along, and if they don't, then that's okay too. Don't force yourself into a relationship unless you really have feelings for a certain person.
2007-01-20 16:54:13 · answer #5 · answered by bobcat70 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
For one thing, enjoy your single time while you have it. I never had the chance. Also, remember , just because they are a couple, doesn't mean they have an ideal relationship or that they are totally and eternally happy.
2007-01-20 16:55:29 · answer #6 · answered by boysmom 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi, don't have feeling jeouleus... you must be opened with another friends or girls friend. Hang out with your girls friend ..you can too , like a couple lover...
make your a busy with activity , like me i'm a single woman but have nice family and course I'm make to busy my working , couse i;m woman carrier.... now you can try this.
2007-01-20 17:00:32 · answer #7 · answered by cosi a 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take more energy into finding the love of your life than in meaningless efforts in the jealousy department. You might find her in a month.
2007-01-21 14:56:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think about all the things you have that they don't. You have freedom to do what you want, when you want — they have to check with each other about everything. You're not distracted from what's really important — they're so busy on their sparkly pink cloud that they don't care what's on the ground.
2007-01-21 02:57:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Get a partner! go to a club or something, dont get depressed by watching others. change that attitude and look for someone to have a good time
2007-01-20 16:51:47 · answer #10 · answered by tico 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋