ok, here is the deal... i really like this really cute guy ALOT. We have been friends since kindergarten, and i am in 8th grade now. We talk like all the time. But he sorta like another girl. I have also heard that he kinda like me. I have asked him out once, but he said maybe and he said " she is like my best friend, and if we go out, but then we break up, i am afraid we wont be friends with her again" but then after that he never gave me a real answer. So, should i ask him out?!?!? please help me!!!!
2007-01-20 16:16:04 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ask him again, have a talk, maybe promising each other to stay friends.
2007-01-20 16:25:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He really values the friendship he has with you. Take a look at the big picture. Friendships last longer than dates.
You both are still very young, so there is tons of time for you two to develop a relationship. If he is so determined to keep his friendship with you then there will be plenty of time for him to feel more secure in the relationship he has with you, & be willing to take it to a higher level.
Yes keep letting him know that you are interested in dating him. But I am going to pass on a little sales technique so you can get him a little closer to asking you out. Let him know that your offer to date will be "for a limited time only".
He won't want to blow what could be his only chance.
Good Luck!
2007-01-21 00:28:40 · answer #2 · answered by No More 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are both young yet and have plenty of time so think of him as a friend and in time perhaps more will develop but right now he is probably not ready to date and become serious with anyone.
2007-01-21 00:24:13 · answer #3 · answered by Al B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no way u crazy gurl. remember yo!a gurl should never ask a guy out i mean gurl ur only in 8th grade there plenty of cute guys out there who will come for u. so just wait for them
2007-01-21 00:24:05 · answer #4 · answered by pretty 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
create a idean where you and he can be together, like at a basketball game and hang with him and see if you and he like each other. keep it simple. you're to young to be serious. just keep it low key and flirt and have puppy love fun...
2007-01-21 00:21:10 · answer #5 · answered by cpinkfloyd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should ask her finally once more and then the decision is urs wat to do caz this kind of relation ship heart in the future. after u get her answer this time u should take a brave step to keep her or leave her.
2007-01-21 00:22:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋