He has a girlfriend he has been with for a really long time and he really likes her. And I 've liked him for like 5 years. How do I get him to like me? Is that wrong?
2007-01-20 16:16:01 · 22 answers · asked by spoiled lil' princess 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if hes been in a long term relationship unless that goes sour your out of luck you cant make him like you there are plenty of fish in the sea happy hunting
2007-01-20 16:21:00 · answer #1 · answered by resigned 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should have done something about it a long time ago instead of waiting until now. Why reck a relationship?? you never know, it might end without your help. Would you want someone to ruin a relationship you were in for awhile just because they liked you for a long time. It's your own fault that you didn't make your move when you had the change before he had a girlfriend. It's just selfish. If it's supposed to happen with this guy it will without your help. If you really like him then you'll be patient for him if it works out for you two. But what if he dumped his girlfriend for you and things didn't work out like you thought it would. Wouldn't you feel bad about ruining a perfectly fine relationship? and you would never know if you would leave you for another girl just like you want to make him leave his gf for you. you're playing with fire. and you're more likely to get burned. just let it go until it's the right time and he's single again. find someone who is available. don't go for guys who are already taken. it doesn't work well in the end. trust me. there's even a book about it.
2007-01-21 00:22:59 · answer #2 · answered by Mel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he really likes HER, then whats the point of going through all the trouble to turn that towards you..its would be way too exhausting and heart wrenching. so i say, either wait for the best (which could be a really long time) or move on NOW. scadaddle girl get urself a man that likes u back
2007-01-21 00:20:57 · answer #3 · answered by kat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the Man is happey then leave it alone ma'. Nothing wrong with inocent flirting, just make sure you arent cheating yourself by taking every reaction 2 heart. Play it cool and just be there for him like a friend with good advise. God knows we cant understand you women, so...having a friend with insight isnt bad for either side.
2007-01-21 00:26:27 · answer #4 · answered by $G$ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't be a homewrecker. if they have a great relationship going you need to leave him alone. find someone else who is single. whoever if you choose to tear apart their relationship for your benefit well let me remind you that karma is a b*tch. so when you find your self in a great relationship that all of a sudden goes wrong just look back at the time you were a homewrecker and roll with the punches.
2007-01-21 00:23:13 · answer #5 · answered by azeris23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you are wrong. If he is taken then leave him alone. Otherwise you are going to grow up and do this all the time, even to married men. MOVE ON and quit being so selfish.
2007-01-21 00:23:02 · answer #6 · answered by curious 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow five years they have been together girl i am so sorry but hes pretty much done looking and i think that he is ready to stay with her start dating and try to find someone for you ,there is someone for you out there Good Luck!!
2007-01-21 00:22:51 · answer #7 · answered by futmexochoa 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Find another guy. One who can't stop thinking about you and one who has tons of time for you. Never break someone up, that is sooo wrong. Good Luck!
2007-01-21 00:22:07 · answer #8 · answered by coolchick 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i really don't have an answer for you but i know how your feeling. Maybe ya'll are just suppsed to be friends. and no thats not wrong. the only diverens in my situation is that i'm going to have his baby.
2007-01-21 00:30:18 · answer #9 · answered by green2heather 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you can do what ever girl does in movies. Try to make him jealous. I say just smile at him a lot and laugh at ALMOST all his jokes. Hang out with him regally. Just try to become friends first. After that watch for when he (if he does) dump his girlfriend either try to make him jealous or tell him you like him.
2007-01-21 00:22:31 · answer #10 · answered by Limdo T 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋