met this guy we get along great..talk on the phone almost daily..he seems to like me.. we have yet to meet but r planning to soon..he said yesterday that we are very different..he's right i am a city girl and he is country..what should i make out of that comment..he stills called today..and ideas
2007-01-20 16:13:18 · 20 answers · asked by lost 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just becaused you were raised in different enviroments doesnt mean that the two of you couldnt get together ask and find out what happens.
2007-01-20 16:18:16 · answer #1 · answered by resigned 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What I make out of that comment is he is thinking about the differences between you. There is a big difference between country folk and city folk. Quiet layed back living opposed to being a more active life.
2007-01-21 00:19:11 · answer #2 · answered by passion for art 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he wanted to hear your reaction to that comment about you 2 being different.
He obviously likes you and is probably wondering if you would ever even consider moving to the country to be with him, if things progressed that far.
Would you? I think he wants to know how your relationship would play out before he falls too deeply in love with you.
Maybe HE would move to the city but I doubt it. Females are more likely than males to give into their mates desired location.
You need to talk about this before someone gets hurt.
2007-01-21 00:20:54 · answer #3 · answered by Molly 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldnt take that comment negative. That could mean many things, one of which might be that he likes you because you are different than his "same ole same ole". I mean dont get me wrong, because there iz alwayz that chance that it could be negative, but i wouldnt sweat it, if it were that big of a deal he wouldnt still be calling. Also i wouldnt hold him to such high standards, because chances are there iz a lot you still dont know about thiz guy. So def be careful and good luck babe
2007-01-21 00:21:36 · answer #4 · answered by Mr.XXX 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are still communicating and haven't been "cut off" it means that he was simply making a statement based on his observations. Obviously you two are different, and he just mentioned it. Don't stress over it, he called you afterwards. That's a sure sign that it wasn't a put-down and also that he's still interested.
2007-01-21 00:18:09 · answer #5 · answered by polishedamethyst 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if that offends you, politely say so. otherwise it just sounds like an honest observation, maybe made out of nerves. maybe he's worried about what you'll think of him when you finally meet because not sure he'll meet "city standards" or whatever. you need to be clear that you like him for who he is.
2007-01-21 00:30:06 · answer #6 · answered by xyz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once you meet him you might actualy find out you have more in common, or that you don't like him at all. There are plenty of fish in the sea dear, so if it doesn't work with him, it just wasn't meant to be. : )
2007-01-21 00:18:40 · answer #7 · answered by Sweetie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It might be good if you are different. Also like my dad told me when i was young " He may pretend to like you but is just trying to sexually assault you." Go meet him in a very populated area and try to have fun.
2007-01-21 00:18:23 · answer #8 · answered by Limdo T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look for a city boy. This one sounds like he want's to play games with you as being it!
2007-01-21 00:17:16 · answer #9 · answered by cprucka 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because they think that we are crazy and thatcountry girls are more calm but thats just what they think and i think that that is not true but he just means that he thinks your a little more out there and hes more shy or settled down, I think that it has no importance though so good luck.
2007-01-21 00:18:06 · answer #10 · answered by futmexochoa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋